You should have a better handle on things, huh? Is that the same as your boyfriend and his "I should have a job already"? According to who? Shoulds can be very destructive, sometimes.
You are arguing with yourself because part of you wants to blame yourself and part of you knows better. Normal all the way around.
Sleep is an easier state to be in when life is difficult to deal with.
Anybody telling me just to get over it when I'm having issues is one of the quicker routes to pissing me off. I can understand your anger over something like that.
I can also understand you tending toward anger more frequently recently, given that that is typically the first response your significant other has toward things when they don't work right. You guys work wonderfully together, but when things aren't clicking you feed off each other's frustrations till the world explodes.
You don't have to sit at one extreme or the other, you know. There are lots of middle grounds you can visit.
No one's perfect, least of all me. I mean look at me! And factoring in my personality with its moodiness . . . I'm the least perfect thing in this universe.
I just don't care anymore. I'm so emotionally frazzled that . . . that I want to crawl into a hole and not come out ever again.
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You are arguing with yourself because part of you wants to blame yourself and part of you knows better. Normal all the way around.
Sleep is an easier state to be in when life is difficult to deal with.
Anybody telling me just to get over it when I'm having issues is one of the quicker routes to pissing me off. I can understand your anger over something like that.
I can also understand you tending toward anger more frequently recently, given that that is typically the first response your significant other has toward things when they don't work right. You guys work wonderfully together, but when things aren't clicking you feed off each other's frustrations till the world explodes.
You don't have to sit at one extreme or the other, you know. There are lots of middle grounds you can visit.
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I just don't care anymore. I'm so emotionally frazzled that . . . that I want to crawl into a hole and not come out ever again.
There's never middle ground . . .
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Yeah, fact of it is, everyone sucks at life. And we spend our lives trying to suck at it less.
Just because you like A and Z and bouncing between them, doesn't mean the other letters aren't there ;) Personally, I like Q.
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