Friends with Benefits ...

May 11, 2007 20:10

What are the highs, and what are the lows?

Is it worth it?

Discuss.

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gorard May 11 2007, 12:35:17 UTC
of what

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base May 11 2007, 14:17:21 UTC
Friends with benefits (did you read the subject???)

:P

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gorard May 11 2007, 14:28:27 UTC
no i didn't are you really that surprised ??? :P

so long as there is no attachment on either party... and I will put so ever bluntly and crudely... for once just let the hormones do the talking... and just enjoy your self... with out the worry

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base May 11 2007, 14:54:32 UTC
Can there really be "no attachments" though, in the medium to long run I mean.

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mac May 11 2007, 14:18:03 UTC
its never, ever, ever worth it.

When you start involving sex, feelings come up whether you want them to or not...i honestly think its impossible to be physically involved with someone and not have feelings (eventually) involved.

"ground rules" never matter. You can say all you want up front, but one of the parties always wants more than they are willing to admit and in the long run, that makes things messy and painful.

xoxox

-L.

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gorard May 11 2007, 14:30:22 UTC
honey can we have sex ?

U know you want to !!!!!

**ROWR**

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base May 11 2007, 14:52:41 UTC
I think she's missing some vital equipment there mate :P

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gorard May 11 2007, 23:25:39 UTC
for leanne any exception will be made :P

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noidea72 May 11 2007, 22:44:09 UTC
The highs ( ... )

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base May 12 2007, 00:08:26 UTC
The lows
- You can escape life and not face emotional issues

You sure that's a LOW?? Sounds pretty much a good thing for me at the moment *lol*

- The fuck friend might fall in love with you or desire more from the relationship then you are willing to give and you are then forced into a relationship or you have to end it and lose whatever friendship there was.

Yeah, always a danger I'm thinking. Has happened to me before.

Things you should have resolved in yourself
- Why you want a fuck friend

The proposition has been present TO me. Wasn't something that I was particularly looking for.

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noidea72 May 12 2007, 03:18:01 UTC
"Things you should have resolved in yourself
- Why you want a fuck friend

The proposition has been present TO me. Wasn't something that I was particularly looking for."

that is not answering the question/challenge :P

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base May 12 2007, 05:21:57 UTC
Well why do you think I want one? Definately has the sex benefits, and who know - something more may mutually develope, and that's not necessarily a bad thing.

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