Sleepy Blow Jobs

[bart_calendar]

Over in a community about spilling secrets a young woman annoymously posts that she loves sucking her boyfriend off while he's sleeping

Comments

[franklanguage]

I've done this with a few different partners; they've never complained. In all honesty, I think it's fun waking a guy up to a blow job.

Being woken up to someone thrusting away is only okay if there has been prior consent-as a few other posters are saying.

[procrasturbator]

Agree on the fun part, not quite on the thrusting part. My gf is into about anything. When we would have a sex filed weekend I've awakened her a few times by putting my well lubed dick in her. But not thrusting away. That's just self indulgent. I would do it because I was hard (and horny), but it might not last until she was fully awake. She would wake up fairly quickly with me just inside her and we would proceed to get it on. She has said it's a nice way to wake up.

I would never force/coerce sex on someone who wasn't into it. The times I did that were when we had already had sex a time or two the night before.

[maps_or_guitars]

Given the experience of my 13-year marriage:

I would not wake up MLW with head, because that's a definite invitation-only area, and I suspect that's the case with most women.

I cannot imagine a lovelier wake-up call than receiving surprise breakfast head, and I'm jealous.

[bart_calendar]

Yeah, and from the results of the pool it looks like the vast majority of us dudes would not have any problem being woken up with our dick in someone's mouth.

[lysystratae]

One of my favorite memories is of the time one of my partners woke me up with oral sex.

[sacramentalist]

Morning wood (or the female equivalent) shouldn't go to waste.

[4o5pastmidnight]

Morning dew?

[bart_calendar]

Mine too!

[blozor]

I would say if it's your sexual partner already and they haven't expressly forbade it, it's not rape. If it's something you try and they have a problem with and you apologize and respect the boundaries after that, then it's a well-intentioned mistake, but not yet rape. If you know your partner has a problem with it and you do it anyway, it's rape. If it's not your sexual partner at all, it's DEFINITELY rape.

[wildeabandon]

I'm not at all keen on having my dick sucked by casual partners, so I'd be pretty pissed off waking up to it from someone who knew that, although I probably wouldn't consider it rape unless it happened a second time.

In general, given how easy it is to check in advance, it seems like a less-than-great idea not to.