When you read erotic stories on Literotica or ASSTR.org most of the time the characters at some point during the sexual encounter will engage in 69
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MLW had the complaint about concentration, but my gf never complains. I would prefer her on top, at least some of the time, but she doesn't seem to want to. At any rate, when we do it we both seem to enjoy the hell out of it and don't bother to analyze it.
My first bf and I always did it with me on top, but he was *considerably* bigger than me. Alex and I typically do it with him on top because that fits our dynamic more. We used to do it A LOT. I'm kind of in the same boat with regards to concentration, but I kind of like the extra added layer of complexity. Plus, since I have weird issues about getting eaten out, it allows me to get my pussy licked without feeling like I'm "not being submissive" or some stupid shit that crawls inside my brain when I'm feeling insecure.
It's funny you say that -- I used to have real issues with getting blowjobs, because I had a pretty hardcore feminist streak when I was younger and I felt like I was objectifying the girl (even if she wanted to do it) which always made it hard to get off. I don't think I've ever heard of another guy having similar issues; most guys love getting head.
On the flip side, I love going down on girls, so 69 works pretty well for me. The biggest problem for me is that while a lot of the girls I've known love getting oral sex, the ones I've ended up in long-term relationships with have never been that into it.
Don't get me wrong -- I love getting head, I just don't get off from it very easily.
Back then -- this was college -- I didn't know many girls who outspokenly liked giving head. What helped me get over my mental block was a girl I was seeing basically saying, "Look, I *want* you to objectify me!" I had a pretty naive worldview back then, and it really took someone pointing it out to me that a lof of girls like that, especially in bed.
I was also pretty uptight coming out of high school, and a lot more laid back by the time I graduated. I don't know which of those caused which, but I'm pretty sure they're related.
I really like when a guy's on top, as long as there's enough angle and space for me to be able to move. 69-ing like that is actually my favourite position, it gets me off without fail.
I find that when he's on top in a 69 I can deep throat much more easily, which I love and obviously HE loves. I find that concentrating on both giving and receiving really turns me on but hey, I love giving blowjobs, so it doesn't take a lot to tip me over the edge whilst I'm giving head ;)
69 is my husband's absolute favorite thing. I can't get off too easily from it. Like you said, I'm usually on top, so I'm worried about the angle and where my teeth/hands/hair are so it's max pleasure and minimum distraction, which prevents me from gaining the necessary head space to have an orgasm. It's on the menu quite frequently here, because he's so fond of it.
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On the flip side, I love going down on girls, so 69 works pretty well for me. The biggest problem for me is that while a lot of the girls I've known love getting oral sex, the ones I've ended up in long-term relationships with have never been that into it.
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I love getting blow jobs - but I've always had lots of female friends so I never worried that I was objectifying them because:
1. I knew that a lot of them loved giving head.
2. I knew that, during sex anyway, lots of girls want to be sexually objectified.
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Back then -- this was college -- I didn't know many girls who outspokenly liked giving head. What helped me get over my mental block was a girl I was seeing basically saying, "Look, I *want* you to objectify me!" I had a pretty naive worldview back then, and it really took someone pointing it out to me that a lof of girls like that, especially in bed.
I was also pretty uptight coming out of high school, and a lot more laid back by the time I graduated. I don't know which of those caused which, but I'm pretty sure they're related.
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I find that when he's on top in a 69 I can deep throat much more easily, which I love and obviously HE loves. I find that concentrating on both giving and receiving really turns me on but hey, I love giving blowjobs, so it doesn't take a lot to tip me over the edge whilst I'm giving head ;)
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