I seriously know exactly how you feel. It's freaky how perfectly this post sums up my life. the only difference is that you can find the words to write and you have the guts to actually talk to the person you LIKE.
I say, as I avoid opening up the chat tab so Facebook doesn't inform her that I've seen her message that she sent 10 minutes ago, soon after i finally worked up the courage to message her. damn.
if only there was a way to know how a person feels about you without asking them directly. people use social clues for this, but I just don't know how they can interprete another person's reaction. and, indeed, if asking directly one risks making relationships awkward from now on.
I was fired from my job this summer. and until this time, I had not had a clue that something was wrong. I liked this job very much and believed that my boss and colleagues did like me and value me. now I wish I had been more attentive and look for certain "signs" or better, should have asked directly about my performance.
asking a common friend who might be better at all these relationships thing to find out how a person feels about you might be a way to clear things up. but one should have such friends in the first place.
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I say, as I avoid opening up the chat tab so Facebook doesn't inform her that I've seen her message that she sent 10 minutes ago, soon after i finally worked up the courage to message her. damn.
-Hudson
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I was fired from my job this summer. and until this time, I had not had a clue that something was wrong. I liked this job very much and believed that my boss and colleagues did like me and value me. now I wish I had been more attentive and look for certain "signs" or better, should have asked directly about my performance.
asking a common friend who might be better at all these relationships thing to find out how a person feels about you might be a way to clear things up. but one should have such friends in the first place.
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Everyone.
Including me and I'm a so called "extrovert". We get scared too.
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