Hmm...I hope I don't hurt your feelings but that ex of yours is being a jerk.
One second he says "I'd understand if you said no." and then two seconds later he says he's going to go anyway?!
You really need to eliminate contact with this person as much as you can and let your friends know what is going down. These things tend to escalate if you don't nip them in the butt quickly
Yeah, I know. I tried answering his messages to be civil, figuring I at least owed him that. But the second he started gettoing abusive, BAM that is it. I am not going to fuel his self destructive fire.
He was messaging me the other day, sayingI was hurtful and being a jerk and what have you, and I didn't respond. I thought he was being civil this time so I responded. Not making that mistake again.
Thing is, I can't really control whether he shows up at my friend's house. I don't want to make a scene, but he's only doing it to aggravate me and try and win my friends over. Seriously. He'd hang out with me and one of my friends once and he'd think they were best buddies.
Whoo, ranty.
I don't want to make a scene at her house, but I know my friends are all lovely and loyal and they'll tell him to get fucked. I hope.
Man, is he going to have a ball being remembered as "That psycho Anna dated."
Also, rad icon and thankyou for the comment -hugs.-
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One second he says "I'd understand if you said no." and then two seconds later he says he's going to go anyway?!
You really need to eliminate contact with this person as much as you can and let your friends know what is going down. These things tend to escalate if you don't nip them in the butt quickly
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He was messaging me the other day, sayingI was hurtful and being a jerk and what have you, and I didn't respond. I thought he was being civil this time so I responded. Not making that mistake again.
Thing is, I can't really control whether he shows up at my friend's house. I don't want to make a scene, but he's only doing it to aggravate me and try and win my friends over. Seriously. He'd hang out with me and one of my friends once and he'd think they were best buddies.
Whoo, ranty.
I don't want to make a scene at her house, but I know my friends are all lovely and loyal and they'll tell him to get fucked. I hope.
Man, is he going to have a ball being remembered as "That psycho Anna dated."
Also, rad icon and thankyou for the comment -hugs.-
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And thanks for the advice in letting my friends know. I intended to let them know on Tuesday when I saw them but I guess I better let them know now.
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No coherent words here, but thanks for being supportive.
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