Comments | babyslime: Lonely housewives. Not as fun as advertised.

babyslime

Lonely housewives. Not as fun as advertised.

Apr 18, 2013 13:23

I love my father, I really do. He's kind and he's intelligent and he's funny and I love him. But sometimes he's such a fucking idiot that it makes me want to scream. Sometimes I wish he would listen to me on occasion, but I fear my words hold no meaning or depth for him no matter how loudly I would speak them, so I don't bother to try. I'm not sure ( Read more... )

laugh so you don't cry, self-actualization, sex is my favourite colour

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justneverended April 21 2013, 19:06:36 UTC

Oh, man. Nothing but sympathy and love here, as another person married to a chef. It's tough, tough, shitty stuff - the ridiculous hours and the feeling that even when your spouse is around, you don't really get to be with him the way you want to be, because he's so damn spent from the work. I don't have advice - sounds like you two are doing an amazing job of communicating and finding your own way to cope - but just a whole lot of commiseration and love ♥

the_shortcake April 23 2013, 02:18:21 UTC

I Seriously get the mismatched libido thing... and now we're poly and it turns out he has a previously unknown cuckold fetish. win win.

yolen April 23 2013, 04:04:21 UTC

FWIW, that exchange with Curtis had my laughing out loud :).

catkins April 25 2013, 16:21:53 UTC

I'm so sorry <3 I can relate to a lot of what you're saying. My sweetheart does effects for video games and is leaving the house at 6am and getting home past midnight each night. And working weekends. Their game deadline is over a month away, so it has an end in sight, but it feels so far away. We just moved to California for his job and don't know anyone, so there's no breaks or adult conversations. It's really hard. He's similar to what you are describing with sex and badly wants to feel connected to me, but I have to feel connected before having sex and so it's been a very difficult balance to strike. I feel bad making the typical excuses, but by the end of the the day/week with being with the kids 24/7 and having farm chores and the house being a fucking mess I really don't want to have sex with someone who I have barely seen in weeks.

bluealoe May 31 2013, 00:15:21 UTC

I'm sorry this reply is so ridiculously late! It's been a hectic couple of months ( ... )