Supporting EvidencerandiniDecember 20 2006, 19:40:36 UTC
Here is an article I came across, as I'm sure you have as well, that states a moderate amount of alcohol everyday is actually a good thing... however, I more than understand that sometimes it's difficult to say "You know... those first four were enough... perhaps I should go ahead and skip the next four." I just thought I'd show you this so you don't beat yourself up too much the next time you have a drink, or four drinks even... just make sure that going over four drinks doesn't happen that often and when it does it's a conscious decision, not a drunken habit.
Sexism is adopted after someone gets shit on. It's an age-old tale. All guys are douchebags, all women are manipulative whores. It's all part of the human condition, it's a defence mechanism. It doesn't mean it's always true, and it doesn't mean a person can't eventually get over it.
If your older than 23 and you don't have at least a few anger issues, then you're not doing shit with your day. Maya Angelou said in an interview that anger is incredibly important, as long as it doesn't become bitterness. Make it productive.
I have a picture of you with a tiny fish at the lake from college. It always makes me laugh.
I'm not very good with feedback, but I am good at listening. And I do know that it is hard to find connections with people, either romanticaly or platonically. And its hard to find someone that you 100% fell that they are there for you 100% of the time.
I guess the main point I would want to make is that it's easy to get jaded and to expect disappointment in order to try to reach something attainable. But you can't just give up. You have to get up and make the choice to push forward everyday. And I believe that eventually, it will pay off.
I miss you. And I worry about you, too. Take care of yourself, kiddo.
That's the way it is my friend. Friends are people who try to make you enjoy your life. They hang out with you, have fun, and don't tell you the things you need to hear that honestly, most of the time, you don't want to hear. True friends and family will. They will tell the truth even if its painful, because they want what's best for you in the long run, not the short term. And honestly, its the best way to have it. Can you imagine what your life would be like if all your friends were worried about your career, or your love life the way your parents do. Enjoy your friends for who they are, rely on your family for who they are, and if you feel like you need to really talk to someone you can pull a friend aside and ask him not to bullshit you. My two cents.
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If your older than 23 and you don't have at least a few anger issues, then you're not doing shit with your day. Maya Angelou said in an interview that anger is incredibly important, as long as it doesn't become bitterness. Make it productive.
I have a picture of you with a tiny fish at the lake from college. It always makes me laugh.
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I guess the main point I would want to make is that it's easy to get jaded and to expect disappointment in order to try to reach something attainable. But you can't just give up. You have to get up and make the choice to push forward everyday. And I believe that eventually, it will pay off.
I miss you. And I worry about you, too. Take care of yourself, kiddo.
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