Comments | aubrilee: biting my nails?

aubrilee

biting my nails?

Dec 06, 2006 02:18

weird compulsions that i haven't engaged in for years. i don't know what subconcious trauma i'm having, but i wish my little brain would tell my big one so i could just deal with it ( Read more... )

love, work, mom, motherhood, moving, schmitty, nc, beijing, sex

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i agree ddmelby December 6 2006, 15:11:50 UTC

I don't think it's selfish at all to decide not to have children. I'm sure that if something happened and you did become a mom that you would rise to the occasion. I know you have little faith in your ability in that area but I believe that because of the hardships you've been through that you would work extra hard to not put your child in that situation ( ... )

sleeping in beds ddmelby December 6 2006, 15:14:56 UTC

Also the part about someone's bed, I disagree with you there slightly. If Roy and I stayed somewhere, we wouldn't have sex in their bed, even if they said it was okay, even if Roy begged me, and even if I hadn't had it in months. I've been in that situation before and that's my personal choice. I think it depends on the person and your relationship. If you stayed here and we had a spare bed, I'd expect you to, because that's you. As long as it didn't wake me up, I'd be okay. But for some people, I'd be really freaking pissed. So, it's hard to tell. I'm assuming someone got upset at you over it. If that was the case, offer to wash the sheets. If that's not enough then fuck them, right?

Re: sleeping in beds aubrilee December 7 2006, 05:09:59 UTC

no, no one got upset. it was a discussion schmitty and i had. i can understand if folks weren't really good friends, but in the end i would not be at all suprised if a couple decided to get intimate in the night. it's almost cruel to not let them!
and yes, sheet washing is mandatory :)

jennafirlinn December 7 2006, 02:55:34 UTC

so this means I can have sex in ur bed over new yrs ;) jk

aubrilee December 7 2006, 05:10:30 UTC

i had planned on it. you were going to get your own set of sheets and eveyrthing.
also, what are we getting daddy and mom and gramma?

jennafirlinn December 8 2006, 04:46:28 UTC

hahaah yeah I don't know if that will happen ;). umm daddy just said he wants a gift card to lowes or something. Mom, no clue gotta ask her still, and grammy, god only knows! she wanted a columbia jacket, so maybe go in with daddy on it. But I'll call and ask or I'll get it once I'm home.