Maybe it's the heat or teething or just a plain bad mood or something, but my 17-month-old has been throwing quite a few tantrums lately, often because she wants something she can't have. Other times, the cause is simply a mystery to us
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Sometimes distraction works, but when they're in a full blown tantrum like that? Just be there. That's all you can, and have to do.
Good luck!
Ack, sorry for the "him". I'm obviously preoccupied, LOL!
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So...I would recommend ignoring her. Seriously, don't talk to her or make eye contact until she stops. She wants attention and is doing it the wrong way...they learn real quick that they get loved on when they don't scream.
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Even offering him the boob doesn't work when he is that upset. So I tell him that we can talk when he is done and I let him have his moment. When he realizes that I am not going to sit there with him when he is acting like that he stops and comes over for a hug. Sometimes he will cry a little bit more before coming over, but it ends much faster if I just let him be.
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tantrums around here are short lived and very infrequent. they always involve wanting what can not be had. we try to keep the no no items out of reach, sight and thus hopefully mind, but none-the-less toddlers are ambitious little people who will get into everything.
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If the tantrum is related to frustration I usually try and show her how to do it. For example she is really big on putting the caps on bottles. Sometimes she gets frustrated when it slips so I will go over and hold the bottle for her so that she can put the cap on.
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I would try saying, "I'm going to be just over there, doing XYZ. When you're finished I'll be there. You can come find me and we'll read a boo." and walk away.
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