You should come to terms with your feelings and spill out exactly what you wrote here to this guy (this military chum), and get it done and over with. Making yourself feeling shitty is never worth satisfying some other dude. If he gets all huffy about it, then it's pretty obvious that he's just a prick.
Sorry is this comes across a bit abrasive...I'm really not trying to be. :P
Nah -- that wasn't abrasive. It's logical, on-point, and is totally relevant to dealing with the solution assertively.
Usually I'm good at telling guys that their sexual attention is lost on me/totally unwanted. Usually I get up in guy's faces for making advances, or what have you. For whatever reason, when it's a friend, or someone close, I just lose my nerve.
I didn't want to hurt this guy's feelings, so I didn't rip him a new asshole.. as I normally would. Granted, the polite thing to do would not be that; I didn't have the balls to do anything more than weakly hint that it was grossing me out.
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Sorry is this comes across a bit abrasive...I'm really not trying to be. :P
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Usually I'm good at telling guys that their sexual attention is lost on me/totally unwanted. Usually I get up in guy's faces for making advances, or what have you. For whatever reason, when it's a friend, or someone close, I just lose my nerve.
I didn't want to hurt this guy's feelings, so I didn't rip him a new asshole.. as I normally would. Granted, the polite thing to do would not be that; I didn't have the balls to do anything more than weakly hint that it was grossing me out.
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