In a case scenario that your employer is aware of that condition, does any of you managed to get promotion at work or a managerial position ? or constantly get ordinary jobs (much lower paid) although you have enough qualification & experience for such a position ?
All I get is assisting my direct boss into organizing libraries, organizing files,
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Office politics, yes they do turn things in their own favor. I just got made redundant in november, I wasn't part of the first batch made redundant (1 year ago), but the 2nd, so its not too bad. Yet after the 2nd batch, they kept on one who got his job through knowing the management, paid him as much as me, yet I had seniority, way more experience & more responsibilities than him.
I am more looking at things from a future point of view as that job is now history.
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She advises that you don't tell your boss about it--"Your boss won't know what to do. She can’t read 400 pages on Asperger’s"
see:
http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2009/11/24/aspergers-syndrome-at-the-office-6-ways-to-be-less-annoying/
I realize that this won't help you now, but in the future you may consider that knowledge may prejudice people against you--regardless of what any "disability rights" law says.
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The labels stuck even more once I disclosed. In the future, I plan to never tell a boss or co-worker about AS again. I got more responsibilities at work when people just thought I was "odd" instead of "fragile" because of AS.
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About if I'm meek and immature (was thinking of this), although both may appear true. At work, I am assertive and responsible. People can't seem to get past my demeanor and just look at the work and knowledge I possess.
Thanks for listening. :)
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But if they ask or give a form to fill in, we might be legally obliged. But then again, if we dont write on the form, there is no way for them to find out really.
We can pass as normal, with excellent eye for details, organizational skills & knowledge in specific subjects (a bonus for us).
With just a lack for diplomacy, but then again anybody could be direct (to be more time efficient, that can be a bonus too).
As for lack of spacial awareness, we are simply accident prone (& turn it into maybe something funny & make jokes of it). By making a joke of it, they might look at us having a sense of humour & being social, yet keeping comments short not to annoy them.
... and so on
Lots can be turned into an advantage for us, making it a gift that we have. May be a bit odd, but whats wrong with being odd?
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