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[solngbeautiful]

 Would anyone here be okay with their partner cheating on them?

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[warriorsmurf]

If it's just sex and it's with a dude, yes. I know it's irrational, but I don't have to compete with that.

[aprilvalentine]

Are you female and your partner male? Or is your partner female?

Confused.

[warriorsmurf]

I'm female and he's male. We've both had same-sex experiences though and identify as bisexual.

[hashishinahooka]

Hm, it's the dishonest that bugs me about cheating. I'm not sure it's possible for someone to cheat on me while being honest. Unless, it's a "Hey, I know you don't want me to sleep with this person, but I'm going to do it anyway."

Then, it would depend on why I don't want them sleeping with that person.

So, the answer is "maybe".

[appolonia]

No, but I do have a friend who I believe is sincere when he says he's open to open relationships without his prior knowledge or consent of a new partner. IDK, it's not really me, but whatever floats your boat.

[pirogoeth]

Honestly? No, I wouldn't be ok if my husband cheated on me. I wouldn't necessarily end the relationship if he was willing to help work on things and make a few compromises, but I know I'd feel very betrayed for awhile by it.

[pirogoeth]

Wanted to add (can't edit comments), that if we set down firm rules and boundaries, I'd at least entertain the idea of making our relationship open.

[jarnetatron]

I don't think you quite understand what the word "cheating" implies.