Comments | arfenial: Why is it......

arfenial

Why is it......

May 16, 2007 17:07

Why is it that people who deserve to get a break never do ( Read more... )

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er_alassea May 16 2007, 22:29:12 UTC

Why is it others cannot be happy when friends are living with success?
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I used to be that way...because I felt sorry for myself. And because I was jealous. I learned compassion and it's helped me focus more on me and also has helped me care alot for others as a whole.
Just like I love you and adore you.

But apparently I haven't learned how to pick up a phone yet, lol.
I suck.

arfenial May 16 2007, 23:21:42 UTC

You are a sweetheart no matter what. Lately I have just been observing more than the usual inhumane crap and just wanted to write about it.

tudor_diva May 17 2007, 03:48:59 UTC

Ah, but those who deserve it DO get it. It just takes a little more time for it to happen so they will be even MORE appreciative and grateful when it does. Hey! Who put the "ass" in "sassy?" YOU did!
XOXO

arfenial May 17 2007, 18:03:59 UTC

Thank you for that, it made me laugh. I often forget that I am a "SASSY" girl. We sassies put the "ass" in "sass"!!!! LOL

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arfenial May 17 2007, 17:55:32 UTC

You are so right and my comments were not directed to be hateful to you mom in any way. I want to help her and cant, Kitty feels the same way. Loosing Lennie WAS unfair and it is really crappy that life turns out that way. It must be so very hard for you to watch and what your mom is going through. But sweetie at some point we are going to have to help Liz cope and that may mean pushing her. I am just really worried that she may never snap out of it so to speak and maybe never allow herself to be happy again. What to do?????

thistlephile May 20 2007, 20:08:43 UTC

JEsus. I mean, I knew what I saw, but I see her so infrequently, I couldn't say that it was a constant. Knowing that now... Why do we not have her in either counseling or a Coping with Grief group? I know they sound silly, but I also know people who swear by them. Counseling at LEAST... because it has been nine months and it is time to start dealing with the loss as a concrete fact, rather than managing it as a moment-to-moment thing that she must face as a new wound every day that she wakes up and he is still not there. She can't do it alone. Want that I should come up with some names and numbers? I know dozens in Montgomery County, many of them free.