Crisis in the "family"

Feb 21, 2006 16:41

My mother, at the age of 53, decided that she wants to divorce my father. She has been married to him for the past 29 years ( Read more... )

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la_mascherina February 21 2006, 19:41:03 UTC
I’m sorry to hear your family is going through a rough time.
Whatever happens there is no reason for you to stop getting a long with your father. It may be strange to say, but if the worse comes to the worst and they do divorce you may even find your relationship with him becomes easier away from unhealthy circumstances. It will be unsettling for a while, but they won’t stop being your mum and dad, yet they are still people and it’s never too late to go for a shot of happiness.
Break-ups are never easy or pleasant, but remind yourself, your mother and sister to take it poco a poco, eh?
I’ve been in your position and am thinking of you.
Un abrazo fuerte, guapa.

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aradirae March 1 2006, 09:23:52 UTC
Grazie, bella! I'm sorry it took me this long to answer this, I've been almost crazy with work... which is good... it keeps me from thinking too much on the subject. So you've been in my position also? I'm sorry to know that, I hope everything is fine now.
I must catch up on your adventures!
Tons of hugs!

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la_mascherina March 1 2006, 19:23:53 UTC
Good to hear that you are crazily productive, it is a good distraction as well.
Yes, I was. It seems a long time ago, but I remember it wasn't painful, just an uncomfortable relief.

Big hugs back.
xxx

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lainy_rn February 24 2006, 13:10:26 UTC
Espero que sua irmã esteja reagindo bem a tudo isso, ela ainda mora com eles e vai ter que escolher com quem morar. Separação dos pais é sempre dificil, mesmo eles brigando muito.

Se sua mãe realmente continuar com esse plano espero que seja pra melhor.

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aradirae March 1 2006, 09:25:47 UTC
Também espero que seja pelo melhor. Pelo menos a minha irmã vai deixar de ter uma desculpa para as notas más a matemática... mas isso eu não lhe posso censurar, pois também era péssima e a culpa não era dos meus pais discutirem à minha frente!
Obrigada pela preocupação!

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arafel1 February 25 2006, 09:46:51 UTC
Mis padres se divorciaron cuando yo tenía unos tres años.
Y al principio fue dificil. Mi madre tuvo que pagar un precio muy alto por su libertad. Y mi padre tuvo que hundirse para saber lo que era volver a ser una persona.
Pero el tiempo pasó y ahora te puedo decir que ambos han rehecho su vida.

Suspiro.
Lamento que tengas que pasar por eso. Pase lo que pase, intenta ser fuerte. Porque seguro que las personas que te rodean te necesitarán.

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aradirae March 1 2006, 09:27:34 UTC
Também tu? Suspiro duplo... (;)) Fico contente por terem refeito a sua vida, isso é o mais importante.

Gracias, amigo, estou a tentar ser o mais forte possível!

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anonymous February 28 2006, 12:28:28 UTC
Hi it's Alicia (yuri). I haven't been on in awhile no computer and working like crazy. Sorry to hear about your parents. That's awful, but I think it's even worse that they are forcing children to take sides. How selfish. Anyways sorry I haven't been around. I'll be posting again in few months when I get moved into my new place. I really miss reading your posts. Have to run I'm on my lunch break.

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aradirae March 1 2006, 09:29:21 UTC
Hey you! I missed you too! I see that Justin delivered my message...
I'm glad everything is working great for you! I'll be waiting for you to move to ear more of your adventures!

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