"One thing I've learned about vampires - they keep pulling new rabbits out of their cloaks. Big, fanged, carnivorous bunnies that'll eat your eyeballs out if you're not paying attention." ~ Anita~ Bloody Bones
Cut them out of your life if you can. If you can't... learn to say "you really don't have any boundaries, do you?" Then turn and walk away. When they demand to know what you "f*****g mean by that s**t". Tell them you don't need that knid of language to express a simple complex and that it is obvious they have issues. Then leave. If you don't want to play games just do the leaving bit after politely explaining that you have nothing to say to them. Don't let the bastards get you down, honey. It's so much easier to hurt and destroy than it is to heal and build. Many people (I use the term loosely here) don't know how to do the latter so they just open their mouths and let fly. It's hard but you can find more positive people and I wish you luck on the hunt.
Thank you Mom. ;) I do appricate that. I try to keep only positive people in my life. I think this is a good thing because she was one of the really negitive things in my life. She may have only been a friend, but I value my friendships. I may freak out sometimes (I do admit) but I have enough sense to come back and say "Hey, I'm sorry about that." She's also trying to cause problems in my relationship with David by going to him and saying crap about me and then after our fight going back to him and appoligising. David's a smart man though. He's ignoring her because he knows how stupid she's being. (and I normally wouldn't say that, but it's true)
Thanks so much for the advise. I just might take it. Heaven knows that I just can't have that stress in my life right now. Not with everything that's going on. :)
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People are idiots!
Don't let the bastards get you down.
Just cos:-
"One thing I've learned about vampires - they keep pulling new rabbits out of their cloaks. Big, fanged, carnivorous bunnies that'll eat your eyeballs out if you're not paying attention." ~ Anita~ Bloody Bones
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I do feel better today though. :) *more hugs*
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When they demand to know what you "f*****g mean by that s**t". Tell them you don't need that knid of language to express a simple complex and that it is obvious they have issues. Then leave.
If you don't want to play games just do the leaving bit after politely explaining that you have nothing to say to them.
Don't let the bastards get you down, honey. It's so much easier to hurt and destroy than it is to heal and build. Many people (I use the term loosely here) don't know how to do the latter so they just open their mouths and let fly.
It's hard but you can find more positive people and I wish you luck on the hunt.
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She's also trying to cause problems in my relationship with David by going to him and saying crap about me and then after our fight going back to him and appoligising. David's a smart man though. He's ignoring her because he knows how stupid she's being. (and I normally wouldn't say that, but it's true)
Thanks so much for the advise. I just might take it. Heaven knows that I just can't have that stress in my life right now. Not with everything that's going on. :)
Lot of love and hugs.
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