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[antigenerique]

I was just thinking and I think people throw around the term "love of my life" way too easily. I know too many people who have said, "This is the one for me... the love of my life" and two weeks later they broke up. And no, I don't believe in love at first site... lust or like maybe... but definitely not love. Love runs way too deep to be a "at

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[sarahashley_]

I believe in love at first sight....well maybe first sight again. Hahaha. I knew Scott from high school, but never talked to him, just made fun of him & he vice versa. We got re-introduced a year after he graduated, and I didn't like him at all, just for the soul fact I knew who he was, and who he dated before me. But, that night, there was sometime. It's one of my favourite stories Scott tells me about when we first started dating. I thought I concidered Scott a game, he had a girlfriend, and I knew it, and my goal was to make him cheat on her(haha. I was evil, what can I say). He pulled me out onto the dance floor and danced with me, and towards the end of the night, he leaned in to kiss me, but before he got to me, he pulled away and was like, "WTF!! I have a girlfriend!" Which blew my mind because I didn't even try to kiss him & he acted like I did! And I realized, I was kind of hurt, and he acted kind of tand offish the rest of the night, and it hurt more than me just loosing a 'game.' After that, he called me and we went on our

[itsalovescene]

I don't believe in love at first sight. I think it's ridiculous. You can't love someone until you REALLY get to know them. Their good traits and their bad. How they react to everyday life and what their views are on things. And I think you never know how much you love someone until you go through an EXTREMELY hard thing. Not just distance, but something tougher than that. And then you come out of it stronger and realize wow, he REALLY is the one for me.

[antigenerique]

Exactly.

[blackrose_42]

I think you can have lust at first sight, of course. haha :)
But seriously, I think you can feel strongly about someone when you first meet them. I don't know about love, persay. But I do know that I felt really strong feelings for Daniel when I first met him.

[psyrah]

I pretty much agree with how you put it :)

I don't believe in love at first sight, it is definitely childish to put it that way. You can't love someone unless you know who they are!, and have been with them long enough to learn the little details about them. I also don't like how some people throw around the 'love of my life' junk. I think it's great that people are happy from their infatuation with their SO, but infatuation and life-long love/commitment are two completely different levels of love. It's kinda dorky of me I guess, but I look at love in a delicate way, and I believe the word shouldn't be tossed around like it isn't one of the most sensitive emotions you can feel. Lust at first sight on the other hand is definitely possible.

[wusiwug]

I'm with everyone else. I really don't believe in love at first sight. I whole-heartidly believe in LUST at first sight. We've all seen someone who made us think "DAMN!"

Love is something that has to be cultivated over time. I believe that you can love someone as a friend after a relatively short period of time, but I believe in order to truly love someone, it takes awhile. I don't think that there's a certian amount of time...but I do believe that you have know a person...and you have to accept their faults.