Have you ever...

[anthrax_island]

considered that in each life, each relationship is designed to advance you to a certain point as a person, and then dissolve? I have spent some time lately looking at my past thru this intersting new set of lenses. If I carry on with this line of thought, it would mean I should actually thank the people who have hurt me most, because the hurt

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[animeoni]

i think that a person should take the bad stuff and turn it into something that makes you a better person, stronger person. But i don't think that gives people the right to be cruel or do mean things to people. no matter what it is wrong to treat people badly.

[aesthetic]

Actually - I'm a huge believer in this train of thought...

Nothing to add really -- you said it all..

[rick_day]

tanning bed.

Go find one.

You are sunshine deficient.

[daucus_carota]

What turns out to be the "precious" moments of my Life are often not what I expected.
xxx

[sihk_rellik]

That's really a brilliant concept... I totally agree. Of course it's also up to us whether or not we actually learn from our mistakes or not. So with that in mind should we be thanking those who hurt us or thanking ourselves??