Self Esteem, etc

[anogete]

Being single after a long relationship and having this moment to reflect and really consider who I am and what I'm capable of, I've been reevaluating my self esteem. If you had asked me two years ago, I would have said that I have few, if any, issues in regards to my self esteem. However, after the magnificently craptastic disaster that was my

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[bleedtoblue]

The fortune is an excellent piece of advice! And Ice T's advice is universal, it applies to both sexes! Hard to be happy in a relationship when you aren't happy with yourself. But trust a man to try and foist the blame off onto the woman.

I'm glad things are evening out for you. *hugs*

[witchy_1]

I like the fortune cookie slip of paper, I'd have kept it too.

Don't fall into the trap of letting what has happened shake your self confidence to the core and don't let other people and their problems lead you to thinking *you* are the one who has the problems.

You are one of the most grounded, mature people I have come across and I think you know that although you may have some issues to work through - you know exactly who you are and that is a good person with integrity and thoughtfulness towards others.

Hang in there - and have a hug to help you on the way xxx

[ccangel42]

ha...yes random from Ice T, but definitely the truth. i think i could use a little bit of that goal too.