I kept trying to put off making an entry until things got better, but y'know, I'm kinda scared now that things will keep adding up...so here it all is
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*endless hugs* Honey, I am so sorry. That is just a whole pile of shitty all at once. I hope things go well with the new medication. MS is unpredictable as fuck (not that you need to be told this *hugs*) - maybe now that you've got the diagnosis and are in a position to do something about it, things will improve. You'll be in my thoughts, hon.
Incidentally, assuming you're talking monetary debt, I'm not sure that you're actually liable to pay her debts, though the creditors will probably try to persuade you you are. Try and get some legal advice about that, but in the UK the debt certainly dies with the person.
Oh, wow. Not in the US. In the US a person's debt is an evil spirit that lingers on long after the person is gone :-( But if I can get some people in gear and get the house sold (it is in a very touristy place so should sell ok come April or May) I'll be alright, or at least no worse of than I was in the first place...
Interesting - one of my American contacts told me, not too long ago, that after she'd paid off her mother's debts, she'd discovered she didn't have to. 'Course, things might have changed - I gathered it had been some years ago. It could be worth checking.
*hugs tight* I'm so sorry about the string of bad luck sweetheart; you're one of the sweetest people I know, and definitely the last to deserve any of this.
Know that you are amazing and strong and things can only go up from here. Sending you prayers and love and many many hugs!
Thank you sweetheart ♥ Did I see a while back that you got engaged?? Oh, my. You were...16? when I joined lj...sniff..they grow up so fast ;-) Seriously, congratulations!
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Incidentally, assuming you're talking monetary debt, I'm not sure that you're actually liable to pay her debts, though the creditors will probably try to persuade you you are. Try and get some legal advice about that, but in the UK the debt certainly dies with the person.
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Thanks for the hugs. I can use all of them ;-) ♥
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Know that you are amazing and strong and things can only go up from here. Sending you prayers and love and many many hugs!
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Did I see a while back that you got engaged?? Oh, my. You were...16? when I joined lj...sniff..they grow up so fast ;-) Seriously, congratulations!
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