I am sorry for your loss, please accept my condolences to you and your family. I lost my dad 10 years ago and still miss him. Do allow yourself time to grieve and then when you can balance that out and remember the good times.
Thanks. It was hard to watch him deteriorate the way he did and how he was in the end but I wouldn't have missed the opportunities I had to be with him even if he didn't always know we were here.
Me and my sister were here with mama when he went and my brother got here a few minutes after. He was on his way but when daddy finally decided enough was enough he went in three minutes. I think Steven was relieved not to have been here he was very upset seeing daddy that way. We all were but Steven is the baby and he and daddy had that special daddy/son thing.
*hugs you back*
I know, and I will I just can't do it right now. I can talk about the stories of things he did or said just not how I'm feeling. I tend to internalize until I can deal.
I was where you are about a year and a half ago. It was a great comfort for me to know that there were people who didn't know me (in real life) or my father that still cared that I was hurting. I hope you can draw some comfort from knowing that we understand and feel deeply for you. *hugs long and tight*
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Do allow yourself time to grieve and then when you can balance that out and remember the good times.
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I will I just have to get some time alone which right now is at a premium. I'll get some when I go home tomorrow.
We've already been talking about all the things daddy would do when we were kids, it's nice to remember those things.
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*hugs you tight*
I'm here if you need to talk.
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Me and my sister were here with mama when he went and my brother got here a few minutes after. He was on his way but when daddy finally decided enough was enough he went in three minutes. I think Steven was relieved not to have been here he was very upset seeing daddy that way. We all were but Steven is the baby and he and daddy had that special daddy/son thing.
*hugs you back*
I know, and I will I just can't do it right now. I can talk about the stories of things he did or said just not how I'm feeling. I tend to internalize until I can deal.
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Thank you *hugs*
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((Hugs))
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