Thanks , I appreciate that. I'd like to think I'm not as naive as I think I am sometimes but other times completely normal things baffle me. I couldn't imagine having a Dominant that was not also my partner. I'm amazed by how many long distance relationships exist in the world. Not just with bdsm but with everyone. Half the people i know right now are in relationships with people 30 min+ away and it's so strange. i have a nother friend who dates different guys every week and occasionally makes out with them and I just don't understand. I know not everyone lives a life similar to mine but it's different when you're faced with another person's situation and i just couldn't imagine being them or living the way they do. It's just not me. But it seems to work for them so SUPPORT I say. But I just can't understand and that makes me feel naive. Especially since I try so hard to be supporting and understanding.... I hope you could make sense of that, lol.
I cant fathom having anything other then a complete relationship with my Master, submission is a gift but is also what I am, For years i was completely uncomfortable with who i was and no idea why, i was with someone that was in less control then i was and was miserable. When Master and i found each other it was as if the world my world had finally been completed. I was whole, i can not imagine life any other way :) While there is sex in our relationship is is not the whole of it, we live a 27/7 lifestyle and while sometimes the day to day things seem to get into the way we are always who we are He is my Master and i am His..
A BDSM relationship doesn't begin or end with sex thankfully ^_^
But I think for me. These kinds of relationships are more pure. Since they require a lot of trust and devotion. And I think that both sides tend to be more open than in a normal relationship in some ways. Not saying that this is completely accurate. Since everyone has different experiences in relationships.
But for me this is how I tend to feel about these kinds of relationships. I think they are quite beautiful in their own right.
But I think BDSM relationships are one's that are very personal. And very meaningful because both sides are opening themselves to the other in a different light. And it takes a lot to leave yourself open to another.
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But it seems to work for them so SUPPORT I say. But I just can't understand and that makes me feel naive. Especially since I try so hard to be supporting and understanding....
I hope you could make sense of that, lol.
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But I think for me. These kinds of relationships are more pure. Since they require a lot of trust and devotion. And I think that both sides tend to be more open than in a normal relationship in some ways. Not saying that this is completely accurate. Since everyone has different experiences in relationships.
But for me this is how I tend to feel about these kinds of relationships. I think they are quite beautiful in their own right.
But I think BDSM relationships are one's that are very personal. And very meaningful because both sides are opening themselves to the other in a different light. And it takes a lot to leave yourself open to another.
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