I think the problem is that most of the guys down here are into other guys. And the guys who aren't realize that Orlando is teeming with hot single girls so why settle down (dumb boy logic!) Someone I work with said she has resigned herself to the fact that as long as she lives in Orlando she will be single. I say, when Prince Charming arrives, he will arrive and the slipper will fit. You can only have so many balls in the air before they start crashing down around you and it sounds like you have plenty on your plate right now. I wouldn't worry too much a guy not wanting to support you through gradschool and your career and stuff. The right one will.
"Maybe living in neverland where you never actually have to grow up allows me to still savor my inner childhood"
I miss that. I miss living in a place like that. Here, everyone is pushing me to grow up. It annoys me.
So many people said Jason and I rushed into our marriage to prove something...I know you're not being judgmental but you have to be careful with comments like that because although it may *look* like that is the case sometimes (and I'm not saying that it never is, trust me, because I know a few people who have rushed into marriage for that reason), many times it is not the case. Personally, we rushed into it because we fell so fast and so hard for each other, and he was at the age where it made sense to propose. It didn't make as much sense for me at my age, I agree, but we were just so excited to start our life together...we wanted to live together and be together and experience life together and it didn't make it any easier that I refused to live with him before marriage, so marriage seemed like the best choice at the
No you're totally right. And believe me, you're not one of those people. I think Jen was right too. There are too many boys in Orlando looking for their Prince Charmings and not their Princesses. ;) Yeah, and have I mentioned how many of THOSE I am in love with?
I'm glad that things have worked out for you and Jason. I think people like you or Jen are good examples. I mean, no relationship is perfect. I guess its even harder for me to relate as an outsider as I've never even come close to getting engaged, let alone married. Someday, someday. Maybe. Or maybe I'll be like Mandy Moore in "Because I said so" and strive to be like her mother - an independent woman who was single and completely content with it, ha ha.
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I say, when Prince Charming arrives, he will arrive and the slipper will fit. You can only have so many balls in the air before they start crashing down around you and it sounds like you have plenty on your plate right now. I wouldn't worry too much a guy not wanting to support you through gradschool and your career and stuff. The right one will.
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I miss that. I miss living in a place like that. Here, everyone is pushing me to grow up. It annoys me.
So many people said Jason and I rushed into our marriage to prove something...I know you're not being judgmental but you have to be careful with comments like that because although it may *look* like that is the case sometimes (and I'm not saying that it never is, trust me, because I know a few people who have rushed into marriage for that reason), many times it is not the case. Personally, we rushed into it because we fell so fast and so hard for each other, and he was at the age where it made sense to propose. It didn't make as much sense for me at my age, I agree, but we were just so excited to start our life together...we wanted to live together and be together and experience life together and it didn't make it any easier that I refused to live with him before marriage, so marriage seemed like the best choice at the
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I'm glad that things have worked out for you and Jason. I think people like you or Jen are good examples. I mean, no relationship is perfect. I guess its even harder for me to relate as an outsider as I've never even come close to getting engaged, let alone married. Someday, someday. Maybe. Or maybe I'll be like Mandy Moore in "Because I said so" and strive to be like her mother - an independent woman who was single and completely content with it, ha ha.
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