409: Oh, and P.S. Mom...

Apr 07, 2008 08:10


I'm gay.

I'm sure I'm the absolute last person on the planet to realize this, and maybe I'm being overly influenced by my new Lesbian hubbie, but it just seems like more fun than confusion. Also, it'll be funny to see my mother's reaction. Like whenever I say lesbian, and she gets all sniffly: "Why do you have to say things like that?" mopily, like ( Read more... )

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going_not_gone April 7 2008, 16:39:00 UTC
I'm shocked, shocked, to find an admission of gayness in this LJ!

Oh wait. No I'm not. : )

Remember, defining yourself as 'gay' doesn't lock you into anything, in terms of identity. You get to define what being gay means to you, and for you, and about you.

Enjoy the process, and congratulations.

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andyleggett April 7 2008, 16:48:05 UTC
Hee. Thanks. Yeah, I'm gonna try and find what it'll mean for me.

Also: I figured after all my dilly-dallying about it, it wouldn't surprise any LJers... but it'll still be interesting to gage my family's reaction. Though, I bet they also knew I was stepping over the line into it already this past year...XP

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crossthebar April 7 2008, 16:42:50 UTC
::luck!::

(belated I'm sure)

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andyleggett April 7 2008, 16:48:50 UTC
It's all belated... but hey, maybe I still have some shock-value left! ^_^

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copperwise April 7 2008, 17:19:37 UTC
You? Gay? I had no idea.

*wait for it*
*wait for it*
*wait for it*

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

Seriously, I love you and I'm proud of you. *hugs*

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andyleggett April 7 2008, 19:10:37 UTC
Well, I'm definitely waiting... this doesn't mean I'm gonna go out and be all over guys... at least, not anymore than I have been already. ;P It just means I'm gonna... I dunno the word for it. It's weird to say "out", yanno? And to say "fun"... Bwah! Just tired of the emo questioning--let's try out an identity or two and see what sticks!

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