Here's the thing, though - she didn't do a whole lot BEFORE her and her fiance accidentally conceived this baby. And her fiance doesn't hardly do shit, either - he, for the most part, will not wait on her - so in turn this apartment gets GROSS if I don't do something. I wasn't raised in filth, and I'll be DAMNED if I'm gonna live in it. If she has the energy to go to parties, and wants to do things outside of actually taking care of chores around here, and when she doesn't get her way, she pouts and acts like a child and will whine that she's BORED, then, no, I still don't believe that it's entirely because of her pregnancy. I hate chores, too, but you know what? They have to be done - after all, I'm an ADULT. Even before she got pregnant, after they would go shopping or do some other errand, HE would be the one carrying most of the things in, and putting them away, while she planted her ass in front of her computer, or would take to her bed because she was oh SO tired. She'll spend damned near 12 hours a day in bed, and that's
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Next weekend is the Invasion of the Exiles, so I've been booked solid for Saturday and Sunday. But if you have some time on Friday afternoon/early evening, I'll lend you a hand. Don't forget, I've got low "asshole tolerance", so I may even provide you some comic relief.
Karen, I'm honestly sick of you bashing us online. I have tried to be civil and keep my feelings about our living arrangement private as much as possible. I don't post nasty things about you and I try to be nice when replying to your posts. But you have this habit of telling partial truths and 'forgetting' things said in the past. In the last few weeks I have been getting home late. I will get out of work and either spend time with a friend or end up waiting for Eric to get out of work. I know the house is a mess, and that is in a large part my fault. But some of what you say is just lies
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I'm also sorry for you if you're scared for our baby. I'm not. I know that our baby will be loved, and I will do anything and everything in my power to make sure that she grows up in a safe and clean place. It may not meet your standards, but it will be clean. I will once again mention that you have in the past said to me (and others) that you expect us to have our baby taken away. What type of friend (because that's what I thought you were) says that to someone who is pregnant. Worse you first said it to me when I was newly pregnant and scared to death that I was going to do everything and anything wrong. Last time I mentioned that by posting it as a response to something you said you IMMEDIATELY got in my face, cornered me in, and screamed at me lecturing that you NEVER said it. You did say it, and the stress of being cornered, yelled at, and (you may not have meant this but it's how I felt) threatened is NOT something I need. I have been lectured MANY times by MANY people (who are mothers!) about relaxing because stress is bad for
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I actually HATE living out of boxes...but as you know, my bookcase fell apart when it was being moved, and with the amount of books that were ON it, teamed with the slant of the floor of the apartment, I didn't want to risk a bookcase tipping over and landing on either the cats or one of us, since I don't trust the pitiful plastic wall fasteners and a couple of screws that would come with them. Tack on the fact that Loki was spraying, and yeah, I'm not going to leave more things out for him to spray. And yes, I do have a high standard of clean when it comes to the PUBLIC areas of where I'm living - living room, kitchen, etc. My bedroom is the PRIVATE area, as is yours
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But if you have some time on Friday afternoon/early evening, I'll lend you a hand.
Don't forget, I've got low "asshole tolerance", so I may even provide you some comic relief.
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