Comments | amejisuto: Here's a question for the guys . . .

amejisuto

Here's a question for the guys . . .

Aug 31, 2007 13:38

Okay, I need to ask the guys a question, mainly because I'm curious and I don't know that many guys in real life that I'd feel comfortable asking this. At least on line y'all can't see me blushing to death ( Read more... )

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vinniebatman August 31 2007, 18:22:03 UTC

... I have no idea, but now that you ask, I am rather curious.

amejisuto September 1 2007, 02:50:13 UTC

It does make you wonder doesn't it? I guess men wonder what girls do in the bathroom too. Heck, they're probably hoping we have lesbian sex so they can fantasize about it.

chocgood84 August 31 2007, 19:21:10 UTC

While I've only ever *walked in on* gay bathroom sex, I guess there's supposed to be foot tapping as a code. Oh, and one of my more...active...friends in college said he circled the building and entered the restroom a few times to see if the same person was still hanging around before he made a move. *shrugs* I know there's a strict code on how *not* to come on to someone in a bathroom. lol

amejisuto September 1 2007, 02:46:22 UTC

So there is something? Wow. I dunno if I'm just too naive or too female but that seems odd. I mean, I can understand at a bar or dance club or something, but the airport? Sheesh.

At least your friend was polite and circled and not just peeped through the crack in the door! Gads.

tsavoritegarnet September 1 2007, 23:55:29 UTC

Ok, now I'm wondering -- what's the code on how not to come on to someone in a bathroom? Not having ever made use of men's rooms, I just don't get this inside information. I've always figured it would upset the men if I walked in -- Spouse claims they wouldn't mind, but I doubt.

chocgood84 September 2 2007, 00:43:45 UTC

http://paulharrisonline.blogspot.com/2007/08/rules-of-mens-room.html

This is perhaps the best one I can find to explain it. lol. There's quite a few unspoken rules, but this about sums it up.

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lincolnkw August 31 2007, 23:10:48 UTC

I admit it. I was a slut in my youth.

I have no idea what stall etiquette might be though, everyplace I went to it started out at the urinals and ended up in the stall (or outside or in someone's car). And yes, as the previous poster mentioned, there was much circling and entering and eyeing each other in the lot. There was also the occasional starting out in the park (or wherever) and ending up in the stalls.

Now that I think back on it, it had to be obvious to an observer just what was going on.

amejisuto September 1 2007, 02:53:46 UTC

I just find it hilarious that there might be a series of foot taps, you know? Like, stomp once if you want a BJ and twice if you'll give one. It just all seems so silly when you can just go to a club or something and hollar out, "I want sex!" and pretty much get some.

pyrotechnik September 1 2007, 05:46:59 UTC

This is completely off the topic, but your icon? ROCKS. Especially since I am in the process of unpacking moving boxes, and well, instead of that, I am blogging.

amejisuto September 1 2007, 15:50:36 UTC

HEE! It's by pink_cosmos. I love her icons, they're hilarious!

mythdefied September 1 2007, 05:44:45 UTC

I'm pretty sure there are recognized "signals" for gays guys wanting to get it on in the restroom. Like others have mentioned, I'm aware of the trolling and circling ones, checking to see if a guy is deliberately hanging about. I'm not too sure about others, thought.

So far as Lesbian sex codes, not that I've ever heard of. I don't know of many women, straight or gay, who'd care to do anything intimate in a public toilet. Ick. Ladies tend far more towards the fastidious than the guys.

mythdefied September 1 2007, 05:46:58 UTC

(Yes, I know the question was for the guys, but the Lesbian angle interests me.)

amejisuto September 1 2007, 15:52:25 UTC

See, the trolling I can handle is the tapping and peeping in stalls that amazes me. And amuses me all at once! LAMO!

wymsie September 1 2007, 11:17:19 UTC

I was wondering this myself.

After hearing his interrogation and reading a few articles (this one is the best, IMHO) this situation screams entrapment. Whether he was looking for sex or not in that bathroom he didn't do anything. Vaguely hitting on people isn't a crime.

I do want to know if there's a super sekrit manual on picking up men in bathrooms. It's both fascinating and skeezy (if he was picking up that cop, he didn't even know what he looked like...get some standards, man!).

Of all things he's definitely guilty of stupidity. Who enters a guilty plea without consulting a lawyer, especially if they can afford one?

amejisuto September 1 2007, 16:01:40 UTC

Yeah, I don't think he's guilty of anything except for being a Peeping Tom where he stuck his eye in the crack of the door. That would piss off.

Then again I do think he's guilty of stupidity. Mass stupidity. I mean, as a Senator you'd think he would know that even if it hadn't a cop it would get around, and to plead guilty without the lawyer? STUPID.

Then again if you could fire a politician for being stupid, we wouldn't have any politicians left.