♕ 14th Curious Thought [Video]

[madcuriosity]

Excuse me,

What do you do if someone doesn't like you, but you don't know what you did wrong for them not to like you in the first place?

I would greatly appreciate any help please,

Thank you very much.

[Alice hopes that was polite enough. She doesn't want anyone else to think her rude.]

Comments

[michinniuint]

video;

You cut your losses and move on, they're not worth your time or thoughts.

[madcuriosity]

But... that seems very harsh. I'd like to know what I did wrong...

[michinniuint]

You might not have done something wrong, the fault might lie entirely with them. Sometimes you can look at a person and just know that you don't like them, it can be an instinct the same as when you just can't trust a person for a reason you can't explain.

[madcuriosity]

He doesn't like me on instinct?

[michinniuint]

We all make a judgement on a person within seconds of meeting them, it's part of human nature to do so and we're not aware of it. Men are often idiots though, that can explain a great deal of what they say and do.

[madcuriosity]

But if he didn't like me on instinct, wouldn't that be the same for others?

[michinniuint]

Every person is different and without knowing the situation, it's hard to make an accurate judgement of what happened. An initial judgement doesn't always turn out to be right either - someone I hold very dear to me, I couldn't stand at first, it simply took time for me to get used to him.

[madcuriosity]

I don't think he can get to know me when he'll barely talk to me.

[michinniuint]

Do you want to talk to him?

[She should not be so engrossed in a conversation with a little girl.]

[madcuriosity]

[Alice does that to people.]

I think I do. He seems very nice... before I talk to him, that is. I'm so terribly curious as to what I've done though. I wonder if that's why I want to talk to him so much now.

[michinniuint]

What exactly happened when you attempted to talk to him?

[madcuriosity]

Well, he went very quite and if he was in a good mood, he wasn't any longer.

[michinniuint]

Was it from the very first sight of you? Or did you manage to get a few words out?

[Maybe it's one of those things, someone being an unpleasant reminder of someone else.]

[madcuriosity]

Well, it's usually the very sight of me, but I do manage to say a few things.

[michinniuint]

You might look like someone he knows; I know from my own life that when someone dies, it can be difficult for friends and relatives to look at someone who looks like the recently deceased. It's a painful reminder of what they've lost.

[madcuriosity]

I'd... not thought of that. It's very sad to think I look like someone he's lost.