Comments | aleurier: Seventy-One

aleurier

Seventy-One

Jul 22, 2007 19:23

Everyone around me is saying that I’m becoming quite sarcastic; that I’m not helping them when they’re down, but instead sting them with a remark that I know is hurtful (and it‘s true). I’m becoming cruel, I’m becoming a total bitch. It’s been happening in the last couple of months, and I do not know what they’re speaking about, because I see ( Read more... )

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lemccartney July 23 2007, 10:43:14 UTC

I love sarcastic people on a movie or tv,but I think it's hard to live with them.
I'm not sarcastic at all,sometimes I want to be,but well,I'm not.
I had a very complicated life,and when I was 13 I was like a little devil,haha xD I think I did that coz of my father,after that he moved to Brazil,I've changed and became a nice person =)

ladiez_dazed July 23 2007, 11:20:08 UTC

Have you considered talking to your doctor? Theres a chance it could just be a chemical imbalance in your body due to hormones or something. I know alot of women who have gone through extreme mood swings that've found out years down the road that they have a personality disorder due to improper amounts of certain natural chemicals the body is supposed to produce. Not saying that's for sure the case here, just throwing the thought out there.
Sarcasm can be quite funny in small doses, but if you do it all the time people do tend to see it as a defence mechanism or, to look from your friends perspective, as an all out attack. I myself was like that for years and I found the more I did it, the further it pushed away the people I loved.

Anyways, sorry for the rambling but I just read this post on my friends page and thought I'd give you my two cents. Hope it helps : )

aleurier July 23 2007, 15:32:58 UTC

Never thought about that. Hm, yeah, that's certainly something to check out on.

Thanks!

linwe_saralonde July 23 2007, 13:29:04 UTC

Yeah I know about the sarcasm shield, I use it too. I think it has become less, now that I'm aware of what I'm doing. But yeah I agree that a little sarcasm is cool. So good luck with it, I totally know how you feel. :)

angelicdevil666 July 23 2007, 15:45:56 UTC

*sigh* i've been hearing the same thing about the sarcasm a lot lately.

brendos July 24 2007, 00:17:00 UTC

whats wrong with being kinda sarcastic? sarcastic people make others happy!!! :D

aleurier July 24 2007, 15:46:40 UTC

There's nothing wrong with them, it's the way how they might have become sarcastic.