I REALLY should have made "the move" on Sandra back when we were seeing each other. Was afraid I'd scare her off though. I often think of what "could have been" if I hadn't been so chicken back then.
I'm just saying at some point while we were dating(nearly an entire year and a half), I should have gotten up the nerve to do something besides kiss the girl. It was back in 1989/90. I was 24, she was 19.
She returned to work at the place we met, I was still working there, in 1998. I was divorced by then, she was married. On a lunch break, we got to talking. I brought up the point that I wished I'd went "further" back then, but was afraid she'd break up with me. She told me she wouldn't have.
Ever since she told me that, I'm thinking how stupid I was! I didn't press matters further, but I'm thinking, if I had... my life would be considerably different today. Got the impression from that one conversation that the reason she DID break up with me was because I DIDN'T make the next step!
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She returned to work at the place we met, I was still working there, in 1998. I was divorced by then, she was married. On a lunch break, we got to talking. I brought up the point that I wished I'd went "further" back then, but was afraid she'd break up with me. She told me she wouldn't have.
Ever since she told me that, I'm thinking how stupid I was! I didn't press matters further, but I'm thinking, if I had... my life would be considerably different today. Got the impression from that one conversation that the reason she DID break up with me was because I DIDN'T make the next step!
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