Thoughts on drinking

[aimlesswander]

I hate when Cindy drinks. She either wants to have sex but is too uncoordinated and rough, or she gets mad/moody at me and acts unreasonable. I think the only time we get along when she's drunk is when I'm drinking, too. I wish she'd just... stop drinking. It's not really my place to tell her to stop. She's not an alcoholic. I don't want to

Comments

[ganimede]

Is the problem that she drinks at all or that she drinks too much when she does drink? Of course you don't want to tell her what she can and can't do, but it's not fair to you if her actions make you uncomfortable or unhappy.

[wiboi]

While you can't necessarily tell someone what they have to do it is perfectly reasonable, and in fact healthy, to let people know when something makes you uncomfortable or if they're acting in a manner that's not good for you.

In other words sure anyone can choose to drink but as their partner you also have the right to set limits within the relationship and boundaries on what you're comfortable with and what you feel is healthy in a relationship.