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[ailenor]

I'm back. I spent most of the last few days up at my mom's family's cabin, along with my parents, my sister, and her four best friends. I mostly did chores, wrote, read, and lay in the sun willing my legs to get tan (It didn't work, surprise, surprise

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[winddancefaiiry]

I can't answer all of these, and don't think that my answers are right...

1) tell them you need to speak with them, either in person, or on the phone. From there, explain that you don't feel that you can be friends anymore for reasons x y and z. Then use examples of things they've done to support x y and z.

Making friends: define friend to youself first. Then spend more time with whomever it is, until they match what "friend" means to you.

Losing someone...I'm sorry, but the answer is you can't keep them until you're ready to let them go. There's ways to stay in touch, to communicate, but not to keep them anywhere. (I know that's probably not what you wanted to hear).

Saving your life: everyone has something they're good at. Play to your strengths, use that to tell them thank you. Since you're a word girl, I'd suggest a note, poem or something of the sort. It doesn't have to be complicated, simple and short may be the best way to do it.

Those are just suggestions, I'm not saying I'm right because I'm probably not.

[ailenor]

Thanks much! I'm glad SOMEONE answered my questions. The more opinions I can get, the better. Those generally seem like good ideas.