Unwelcomed guest

[aiko_toshino]

Was there a point in your life when a friend of your family member was introduced to you before said friend stayed the night, then, the next day, you thought you won't be seeing him anymore until he returned next week and stayed at your place for two nights?

That happened to me. He stayed here last week after a birthday party he was supposed to

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[windyhurrice]

Aw.... *hugs*

I know the feeling of them coming and visiting and that I don't know them at all...

He even dared to enter my room, lay down on my bed and roll over my clean laundry. I ordered him to get off. He didn't like my tone and asked for my apology. Pissed off, I didn't gave him one. Instead, I crossed my arms over my chest, glared down at him and told him to get off.

I would consult this to THEIR realtion if I could. He is a guest so act like one already. he doesn't act like one and he enjoys pissing you off. I would lock my room if I were you.

Next time if he comes, be nice but not too friendly with him. (Give him the cold shoulder if you need to but this is unneccessary) if you beat him with patience he'll lose interest to come again next time.

[aiko_toshino]

The problem is my room is a Japanese-style one - tatami mats and sliding doors so locking is not an option.

He had broken a lot of Japanese SOP when visiting and staying at homes. Thinking about his actions still pisses me off even now.

[windyhurrice]

o_O Tatami?
I see...Hmm....that's pretty inconvenient o_O;;

What is Japanese SOP? (Sorry I never came across that word before ^^;; )

Hope things will work out for you =)

How old is he anyway? he sounds SUCH a child o_O

[aiko_toshino]

Japanese standard operating procedure. Gomen. I should have used Japanese set of rules when visiting someone's house. Sorry about that.

The guy is in his early 30s. And yes, he acted like a child to the point that he was beyond annoying.

I'll be seeing the guy in Sri Lanka though. ANother reason why I'm not excited with the trip. *sighs*

[balatstar]

ah. good riddance. here's hoping he never ever comes back.

[aiko_toshino]

He might come back and then we will see him when we go to Sri Lanka. My oldest sister will get married there and he'll be the best man in her wedding and now that she knows what his character is, she doesn't like the idea of him playing that role.

Worse, he's hitting on my other sister. >.<