Dear World,
Believe it or not, it is totally okay to prefer one or the other. This does not make someone a bad parent, this does not mean they will be disappointed with their child, this does not mean they will treat it any differently, and it does not mean they have their priorities off-track and need a lecture.
No, really!
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Maybe it's hormones. Or maybe people are douches. Either way, it got a bit ranty. )
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(not that you don't have funny moments when not pissed, lol, but - you know... )
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Each time is different and however you feel is how you feel. Nobody should have to defend their feelings, especially since it's all theoretical and will make NO DIFFERENCE to you once the baby's here.
I really, really like that. You worded it so much better than I did!
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With all that being said, I hope you get your son.
(Thanks for allowing me an oppurtunity to vent!)
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I imagine I would be a whole lot more hurt and upset if one of my girls *did* have a birth defect. How insensitive of people! I would have snarked the hell out of them right to their face instead of let off steam here. And, really, even if the baby does have a defect, it's not like you'd love it any less then anyway! Of course, I don't think anyone around here really realizes how smacking of ableism that is.
Anyway, you're always welcome to vent around here! Obviously it is something I encourage. lol
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I think I should start soon though, whenever families with lots of little girls come into the cafe I work at I can't help but wish they were mine :-)
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