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10 year reunion

Mar 25, 2012 23:06

This whole 10 year reunion thing is really sticking in my craw for some reason. I don't know what it is about it, I've been talking to my mom about it a little, whether or not I want to go and all of those things ( Read more... )

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c8h7n3o2 March 27 2012, 03:50:27 UTC

I am with you.. it's really scary actually! It's my 10 yr high school reunion this year too and honestly.. I don't speak to any of them regularly (read at all). There is one chic that I honestly only wish a happy birthday too. I had like 2 real friends, a few acquaintances, and that's it. Yeah I did the college thing too but I still didn't manage to make a ton of friends. After all that, I have gained one more friend. It is gonna be weird to see them again (that is IF I ever get any info - I don't do FB) because I was always the quiet smart one that people only spoke to in passing (rarely) or when they wanted something. Sigh.... I know those people all have kids and marriages by now, and I have none of that (nor do I want it!). I only ever went to one dance and I hated it, Sr. prom it was. I never dated in school, tho there was one guy who liked me. I just didn't do that. I am not one for labels or anything.. I am just me. *Shrugs*

thalialunacy March 28 2012, 17:32:26 UTC

I am so pro-reunion it's not even funny. I mean, for as much as the actual thing might be boring, or you don't want to have to explain your life story eighteen times an hour, you never know. I talked my mother into going to her 40th (!), even though she had all the same reservations you do. and she came back with a new friend that she still has lunch with on a regular basis. You've changed, and the best part is that so have they. I mean, at least some of them. It's better to give it a try than to wonder, imo. :D

acquiescence_ March 30 2012, 02:18:55 UTC

Yeah I think part of what is getting me all worked up about this reunion is being stuck on what people used to be like and what a hell hole high school was for me, it's possible it might not be as bad as I imagine it to be. I've still got several months before I need to decide, it's just stuck in my craw these days.