Joking or not, that sort of shit is still really detrimental to a person's pride. I think the fact that it's joking around kind of sucks just as much, honestly, because then everyone else thinks it's nothing harmful.
Fffff I wish I knew what to say. I mean the only thing I could suggest is trying to be just as nasty to the bitch, but I also know that's not really how you are. Maybe you should just tell them to outright fuck off some days? I mean, it's not like that's going to help you much anyway, and people start to wonder what's up when people suddenly disconnect.
UUUUGH Want me to nuke your school? I will, we got all kinds of crazy fallout shelter folk here, and there's a guy willing to let my dad fire off all kinds of weaponry for free. GIMME THE WORD MAN, SHIT WILL HAPPEN. then you can play the pity card and get a whole new scholarship. "MY SCHOOL WAS NUKED" Fund. It'll work. 8| *SETS UP THE BOMB*
I try to be nice and play along because I know they mean nothing by it but yeah, after a while it just sucks and I'm really starting to feel that suckage after two years of it. It was nice when I knew them less and they respected me more. At least one member of the group sticks up for me after a fashion but uuuugh \x
I would be a bitch but this chica is like... one of those small intimidating types, and it's her and her roomie that do it mostly and they're great people they really are but I get tired of thinking I'm considered a pet or a plaything, which has also been said...? And I've tossed them pretty big hints too, so it IS almost time to be a bitch about it I just suck so bad at that and it makes me feel even more like they are right...? B|
Nukes sound nice but there are horses and alpacas and nuns and a few nice people I don't want suffering from fallout. SETTING UP THE BOMB IS SUCH AN APPEALING THOUGHT BESIDES THAT REALLY.
They're not right, regardless. Just... Like I said, maybe start disconnecting from them before anything else, and if they start nagging after you, you could be bitter about it? IDRK I'm bad at this because I'm naturally pretty venomous towards people like that ahhahaah but DSFALSDKHFSDLK idk. Getting out of that situation is probably the best option at this point is all. ;n;
YOU COULD MAKE YOUR OWN FALLOUT SHELTER FOR ALPACAS AND STUFF AND WHATEVER YOU WANT AND THEN I CAN NUKE IT you can be like a retarded noah's ark?????? i'm so good at making plans umg
yeeeaaaah I kinda have been all year kinda distancing from 'em and they uh. Don't really care and attribute it to my flakey-ness when I disappear for a while ]: They're seniors anyway so it's only until the end of this semester.
IT'D BE LIKE.
NOAH'S DIRT.
Terra Haute needs a restart anyway B| this town/river/everything sucks here
Fffff I used to get this all the time in high school, seriously. Like acting like they were friends and all but then just being treated like some lost puppy that could be kicked around because they knew I had nowhere else to go so would always come back no matter how they treated me. ]: It was kind of that "joking around" feeling, too, which... really, I think is even worse than just being outright about it. I completely fail at standing up to people too, so I know how that is. x/ I ended up just dropping out of school and saying to hell with it all, but... even then they didn't seem to care. They just got pissed off.
And I mean I kinda felt like shit about it for a while, being the kind of person who felt like I was just being a bitch at the time, but you know what I realized? If you do stand up to them or distance yourself like that and they still don't treat you right, you're really better off without them. It's better to just be on your own than to be around detrimental people, in cases like that. I mean it's really just bad for
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Aaah yeah the puppy thing gets me too, specially... they're not really bad about it and I try to see from a standpoint of "hey they may think I'm playing, too, they may not know it bothers me." but like I said to Roz I dropped hints. Maybe they didn't get it maybe I just provoke this kind of behavior but the longer I do that the longer it'll keep going. SO, some standing-up-to is in order yeah.
I'm so sorry you had to deal with something like that. I usually avoided awful people altogether in highschool and stood up for myself there but here in college it's just so much different. Like I said, they may not KNOW it bothers me but I am going to let them know for sure. Hopefully they won't call me a whiner or I might have to get vicious =3=
Yeah, I understand. x/ I mean if you drop hints and still nothing happens, just try to be like look, this is how I feel and I'd like you to stop because it really is bothering me, blah blah. Hopefully it works. 8c
CAUSE OTHERWISE YEAH YOU NEED TO START PUSHIN PPL DOWN STAIRS.
WAIT I WASN'T DONE TYPING YET LIVEJOURNAL YOU DICK
anyway yes I SAY...you should say something to them ;___; LIKE SOON AND REALLY LOUD MAYBE because otherwise they won't get it and will keep...doing that
since the person is a biology/animal behavior person and sees the hierarchies in all things social, which is kind of interesting and useful information but yeah it's still retarded.
THERE WILL BE THINGS SAID. Which may do nothing because I'm not very intimidating, BUT THINGS WILL BE SAID ANYHOW.
and then we move on to stairs and if not that, bombs.
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Fffff I wish I knew what to say. I mean the only thing I could suggest is trying to be just as nasty to the bitch, but I also know that's not really how you are. Maybe you should just tell them to outright fuck off some days? I mean, it's not like that's going to help you much anyway, and people start to wonder what's up when people suddenly disconnect.
UUUUGH Want me to nuke your school? I will, we got all kinds of crazy fallout shelter folk here, and there's a guy willing to let my dad fire off all kinds of weaponry for free. GIMME THE WORD MAN, SHIT WILL HAPPEN.
then you can play the pity card and get a whole new scholarship. "MY SCHOOL WAS NUKED" Fund. It'll work. 8| *SETS UP THE BOMB*
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I would be a bitch but this chica is like... one of those small intimidating types, and it's her and her roomie that do it mostly and they're great people they really are but I get tired of thinking I'm considered a pet or a plaything, which has also been said...? And I've tossed them pretty big hints too, so it IS almost time to be a bitch about it I just suck so bad at that and it makes me feel even more like they are right...? B|
Nukes sound nice but there are horses and alpacas and nuns and a few nice people I don't want suffering from fallout. SETTING UP THE BOMB IS SUCH AN APPEALING THOUGHT BESIDES THAT REALLY.
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YOU COULD MAKE YOUR OWN FALLOUT SHELTER FOR ALPACAS AND STUFF AND WHATEVER YOU WANT AND THEN I CAN NUKE IT
you can be like a retarded noah's ark?????? i'm so good at making plans umg
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IT'D BE LIKE.
NOAH'S DIRT.
Terra Haute needs a restart anyway B| this town/river/everything sucks here
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Luckily I was gifted with a great deal of quick sarcasm, which works....sometimes xD
But still, it's incorrect for them to treat you that way. Put 'em in their place before it's too late 8C
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I should and probably will soon rararara >C
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And I mean I kinda felt like shit about it for a while, being the kind of person who felt like I was just being a bitch at the time, but you know what I realized? If you do stand up to them or distance yourself like that and they still don't treat you right, you're really better off without them. It's better to just be on your own than to be around detrimental people, in cases like that. I mean it's really just bad for ( ... )
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I'm so sorry you had to deal with something like that. I usually avoided awful people altogether in highschool and stood up for myself there but here in college it's just so much different. Like I said, they may not KNOW it bothers me but I am going to let them know for sure. Hopefully they won't call me a whiner or I might have to get vicious =3=
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CAUSE OTHERWISE YEAH YOU NEED TO START PUSHIN PPL DOWN STAIRS.
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in other news AUGH SAY SOMETHING TO THEM
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anyway yes I SAY...you should say something to them ;___; LIKE SOON AND REALLY LOUD MAYBE because otherwise they won't get it and will keep...doing that
since when did groups get heirarchies...
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THERE WILL BE THINGS SAID. Which may do nothing because I'm not very intimidating, BUT THINGS WILL BE SAID ANYHOW.
and then we move on to stairs and if not that, bombs.
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