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Nov 19, 2013 12:11

I meant to update this last week but then Terrible Things happened, and I don't want to talk about them much so instead I'm going to fangirl over Tales of Xillia, which is a pretty good game and I enjoy it and it's no Symphonia or Vesperia but it's sort of Abyssy minus 15+ hours of the protagonist whining like a child (because he is SPOILERS) so ( Read more... )

xillia, gamergrrl, the unbearable hotness of being, the void that is human existence

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punanainen November 19 2013, 18:37:00 UTC

Fuck. Sorry to hear about your friend! It sucks so hard. I am sending you lots of e-hugs! <3

a_hollow_year November 19 2013, 18:50:31 UTC

Thanks. havelock and I have been a complete mess about the whole thing. I always thought of my college friends I'd be the one to die first because I'm a not-so-secret abuser of my body and enormous depressive. But since I'm not the first, I'll obviously be the last, because living until 102 in my family ain't no thang if you don't get shot and killed in a World War.

punanainen November 19 2013, 19:48:10 UTC

Ily <3 if you need to talk about things I'm a good listener!

a_hollow_year November 19 2013, 21:14:50 UTC

ILY2

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ymfaery November 19 2013, 19:19:42 UTC

..holy cow, 4 months married? I'm sorry for your (and her spouse's) loss.

a_hollow_year November 19 2013, 19:42:18 UTC

Me too. It's so fucked up.

supermelanie November 19 2013, 20:00:04 UTC

I read the article Ashley posted with a statement from her boss. Just... fuck, man. I only met her once or twice, but she was obviously a pretty bad-ass human being and much-loved by everyone who knew her. Fucking awful.

a_hollow_year November 19 2013, 20:50:20 UTC

That is so weird, I would have SWORN you guys ran in the same circles, but I guess my oldass memory is getting faulty.

supermelanie November 19 2013, 20:56:14 UTC

Looking back, I don't know how I didn't know her better. Certainly when I was roomming with Benji, Aaron, Manuel, and Jenny, I should have met her more than once or twice?? But somehow that's how it shook out.

empath_eia November 20 2013, 16:23:31 UTC

Jesus fuck, that's awful. I'm so sorry.

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golden_meliades November 20 2013, 20:38:59 UTC

When anything like this happens to someone I know, I always want to say something that will help. I know that's not possible, so then I want to say something that is at least meaningful, that isn't just a platitude, because platitudes feel like they're almost...careless.

I can't, though. I've never managed. I was really sad to hear that something terrible like this was happening in your life, but I don't know how to express it so that it sounds like I mean it, that I actually feel something for you. I'm sorry that I don't know how to do something helpful. I hope that there is solace for you, somewhere.