yo' wrath of god frak off;;

[_touched]

001. I'm not even going to bother with the original formatting of my journal posts, even though I'm ocd enough that it will bother me and I'll probably come back later and edit this entry to match the format of all the other's before it. But, I just ... this is really ridiculous and childish. The more I got to thinking about how inklane talked about

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[kyliemou]

It's funny how people forget that Twitter is a very public place. If you're talking about another person, regardless of it being good or bad, that other person will find out.

I'm sorry f or all the drama. I've given up on causing any issues. I just either let it go or defriend. Simple.

[_touched]

It kind of is, isn't it?! I don't know why she thought she could get away with that and I wouldn't know anything about it. I'd have at least had the decency to remove them from my twitter first, make sure it was set to private friends only, and then talk if I was going to - which, honestly I wouldn't do that. Of course mistakes of the past all accounted for because everyone makes them at some point, but I wouldn't do this because it such poor taste and it makes you look like an idiot

[kyliemou]

Twitter is a public place, but she could've Direct Messaged them, if she was smart. :P In a public place, there is a private function so she really should learn how to use it. If you don't want people to know something, don't splash it on twitter. Go to chating programs instead. Or email. Or PM on lj, etc.

Sometimes, it almost doesn't matter listening to both sides. I said almost. If you're friends with someone, you'll most likely take their side anyway because no matter how the story gets twisted, it will always be them that comes out the favorite. Like on your side, you're coming out as the favorite. It's a strange thing- loyalty

[_touched]

That's exactly right and because Twitter is such a public place, that's why I opt'ed to have mine be set to private. I know that I've got my faults and I've made my mistakes in the past, but that doesn't mean that I can't change or that people in general can't change, grow, or learn from their mistakes

[katayla]

I'm sorry!

I think this is the most important thing you said:

So, in all honesty, it was truly a misunderstanding gone very awry without her even trying to figure it out or work out the issue, she just took it publicly to her twitter and had a field day talking bad about me amongst all of her other friends.

I mean, we all have misunderstandings. That's just life. The problem is when people jump to conclusions and don't even make an attempt to straighten it out. And especially when they talk about it in public like that. Twitter seems private sometimes, but it's really not.

[_touched]

It's okay, it's not your fault that people act like idiots on occassion.

That's true, but it's something entirely different when you're openly bad mouthing someone in a public domain, where other's who don't know the person you're speaking of can do the same as well - all the while making the person look a like villian when really it was just a misunderstanding that you refused to work through and get to the bottom.

If she would have just apologized for talking about me publicly, then I would have been fine with it and just let it go. I might have de-friended her because I don't need friends who are going to treat me like that, but there would have been no reason for me to have to feel as if I needed to make this post and defend myself. I really hated doing this, but I felt obligated to let our mutual friends know the way she chooses to do deal with issues like these.

[breannaa]

Eww.

I hate people like that. Personally, I think you should just ignore it, because none of those people would actually say this to your face. They hide behind a computer screen with their fancy little screenames and think they're so badass.

& you're right. Lois Lane would kick their asses. :D
♥

[_touched]

First of all, your icon is total ♥.

And, yeah ... I can't stand people like this, myself. I mean, I know I've made my mistakes in the past as most people do, but you live and learn. And, nothing I've done has ever been to this extent. Ugh.

Oh, I am. I just wanted people to know how bad it was, because I felt like I needed to defend myself to our mutual friends. Plus, I felt like I needed to warn them, just in case it happens to them as well.

Haha, you're so right. Lois wouldn't take no shit like this off anyone. lolz. ;)

[breannaa]

:DD Thank you.

I totally understand. I always feel like I have to defend my side of the story even if I don't know the people that I'm even defending myself to! :D It's crazy, but I think it's just natural.

♥

[_touched]

Haha, you're welcome. I kinda miss Lilith, now. Haha, where is she when you could use her right?! ;)

Thanks, I appreciate that a lot. I know what you mean, it's not as crazy as you think it is, especially if it's a situtation like this one and it's just a misunderstand turned into a ridiculous witch hunt. It is definitely natural, I wish we didn't have to feel like that self-preservation and all, but that's just life sometimes.

Unfortuantely anyone is allowed to act like an idiot, these days.

[brennans]

JFC people are dumb. Even if people have a misunderstanding or argument, there's no need to trash talk someone in a public place. Especially when ones tweets are public. Sorry you have to deal with dilholes love. *HUGS.*

[_touched]

That's okay, bbs. I just wanted to warn our mutual friends of her tendencies. I hate that I felt like I had to, but something about all of this just didn't feel very comfortable to me. I mean, she didn't even give me a chance to explain what I'd meant in my initial comment to her flocked post now, before she went and bad mouthed me on her Twitter publicly and let her friends ridicule me as if I'm some villan off sorts.

*hugs*

[yourgravity]

wow, people are bitches. i'm so sorry you had to go through this. you didn't deserve any of it! i just love that -she- chose to trash -you- out publicly, then play the victim. lovely girl, no - really. good lord, s. shake it off. you're way too awesome for this crap. :)

[_touched]

Pretty much, and the funny thing is that most of them didn't even know me except for her and one other. It's all good, it's a lesson learned in who my friends are and who I can trust.

Pretty much my reaction, M. Srsly, you should have seen the look on my face and then she twittered something about, "that's it, I give up." It was ridiculous.

Oh, consider it shaken. I'm not about to let it bother me, I just wanted to warn our mutual friends and give them a heads up at how she chooses to react to situations like these.

Haha, aw, you're awesome-er. ;)

[yourgravity]

yeah people are just butts, & it's so sad that people you didn't know & who didn't know you jumped in on it. their loss though. seems like they'd rather have a fake friend like her than a sweetheart like you.

good, def don't let it worry you. it's just so sad there are people like that out there, making fandom annoying & life a little more icky. :(

*hugs* love ya girl

[_touched]

She really burned her bridges with me and I'm going to make it my ambition in the next few days to make sure that the Clark/Lois community knows what kind of person she is, so that they can make their own judgements. If you haven't, check out the links that I edited this post with, they'll totally disgust you. It's just like ... wow, I had no idea people could be that trollish and creepy, but she takes the cake.

I've almost a mind to ask people to pass this information on, so that people know what they're dealing with. I'm not trying to further drama, but a little warning doesn't hurt at all.

Nah, I'm not letting her get to me. I know that i'm better than that.

*hugs* Love ya, bbs.