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[starromance14]

Today was my friend Dustin's Wake/Funeral, I went there to pay my respect's to the family

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[fruitsofviolet]

:*( im so sorry darling. brandons an asshole, you deserve much better friends than that. are you still here, i can talk to you if you'd like to talk to someone. sending love and kindness your way. *safe gentle hugs, if you'll have them*

[fire_fox01]

That is completely horrible. I can't imagine how scared and alone that must have made you feel. Brandon sounds like a horrible friend. You deserve better. I hope you at least feel a little better. I'm so sorry that happened to you.

[sistahraven]

::big hugs:: I'm sorry you had to encounter him at such an emotionally vulnerable place. Try to remember - your virginity has *nothing* to do with stealing. Ever. Yes, he physically had sex with you... but your virginity is only ever something you can give away - you give away your virginity with love and trust... not because someone decided they wanted it.

It's okay to reclaim that, even if anatomically speaking you're now lacking the piece of internal skin that determines virginity. Women horseback riders often break that piece of skin without ever having sex... it's still *your* choice who you give that to.

[growingupmany]

That sucks!!! I am so sorry. You should never speak to that brandon guy again, either. Anyone picking up girls at a funeral wouldn't be worth knowing anyway, but in this case it was just adding insult to injury. You deserve much better people in your life.

I hope you can do something to create some safety for yourself after that damaging experience. I like burning sage, playing calming music, and taking a bath.

[briar_witch]

That's horrible! Your friend Brandon doesn't sound like much of a friend. You don't need anyone that cold hearted and callous in your life. You deserve much better friends than that!