::big safe hugs:: My sister tried to kill me twice, so I can understand that level of feeling unsafe. I'm sorry that he's going to be back around you again - it's so unsettling knowing that someone who would try to do that to you is going to be in your space again, and I'm sorry your parents are so unsupportive.
I hope he leaves sooner than expected. Be gentle on yourself for the next few days - you deserve some peace
*safe gentle hugs* I've never been through this with a blood relative before, but I can relate to the feelings of feeling unsafe. My bf's sisters have both threatened to kill me (and one sister threatened and tried to kill us both) numerous times. Being near either of them upsets me greatly.
Do you have anywhere you can go while he's over? Maybe stay at a friend or relative's house for a few nights? I really hope he leaves really soon. Your home should be a safe, happy place. :-(
*hugs* I am so sorry that you've had that experience. Unfortunately, I have too. My older brother threatened to kill me countless times, and tried to a couple times. Despite me telling my parents about the incidents, they did nothing. My brother continued to hurt me, physically, emotionally, and sexually, and I stopped telling my parents. Because my parents still idolize my brother, he is around for holidays etc. and it's a really stressful situation for me. I don't have much advice, except that maybe you could find somewhere else to stay for a couple of days, or even just a couple of hours each day, to give your mind a rest from being vigilant (understandably) all the time. I hope that he leaves quickly and that you stay safe. --Leah
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I hope he leaves sooner than expected. Be gentle on yourself for the next few days - you deserve some peace
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Do you have anywhere you can go while he's over? Maybe stay at a friend or relative's house for a few nights? I really hope he leaves really soon. Your home should be a safe, happy place. :-(
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--Leah
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