I haven't had any experience in this field yet, so I just want you to know that my 'advice' is solely my own opinions on this particular topic.
If you're thinking about marriage though, I would have to say that moving in with your bf might be a good first step. After all, living with someone can put a very different perspective on a relationship, and I think that it is important to get a feel for living with someone before you marry them.
That's not to say you have to move in with him right now, but I would definitely do it for a little while before marriage.
Like I said though, it's just my opinion. Hope it helps some ;)
You should do whatever you feel is right. Living together before marriage isn't for everyone, so if you're not comfortable with it, don't do it.
But maybe you should lay off the "I won't move in unless we're married", because he might feel like you're just pressuring him to marry you sooner. I'd just say "I don't want to live together before marriage, whenever that may happen" and leave it at that.
Things will happen on it's own natural course, you just need to let it.
I'm pretty young, so it's hard for me to really speak knowledgably about this. But it would be my personal decision to live with him before I marry him. I mean, if you get married before you find out if you even CAN live with each other, then... you know, then where are you? It's good to find out if you can even live under the same roof before you make a lifetime commitment. Because you can always move out. But once you're married... well, that's my advice. I hope that helps.
stick with your intincts. You already told him you didn't want to move in with him. if you don't want him to think he can push you around but instead respect you i would stick to what you told him. personally i would move in with my parents.
You might want to move in with your parents unless they don't like him then they will try to get you to not be with him. If they like him the best thing to do is wait until you are at least ingaged and then see where you to are in your realationship. There are alot to go through take this from someone who has experience.
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If you're thinking about marriage though, I would have to say that moving in with your bf might be a good first step. After all, living with someone can put a very different perspective on a relationship, and I think that it is important to get a feel for living with someone before you marry them.
That's not to say you have to move in with him right now, but I would definitely do it for a little while before marriage.
Like I said though, it's just my opinion. Hope it helps some ;)
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Living together before marriage isn't for everyone, so if you're not comfortable with it, don't do it.
But maybe you should lay off the "I won't move in unless we're married", because he might feel like you're just pressuring him to marry you sooner. I'd just say "I don't want to live together before marriage, whenever that may happen" and leave it at that.
Things will happen on it's own natural course, you just need to let it.
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I'm pretty young, so it's hard for me to really speak knowledgably about this. But it would be my personal decision to live with him before I marry him. I mean, if you get married before you find out if you even CAN live with each other, then... you know, then where are you? It's good to find out if you can even live under the same roof before you make a lifetime commitment. Because you can always move out. But once you're married... well, that's my advice. I hope that helps.
~*Michy*~
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