Failure to communicate

[_lauren_]

So far I have made progress on only one of my goals. I've done a lot of research on the teaching programs at the schools in my surrounding area. I have a couple of options but none of them are perfect. One school, Metro, requires I have a BFA (I have a BA) so I'd have to go to school for another 4 years. The other school is Regis and it's

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[_lauren_]

Yeah, I've gathered that men hate it. It's funny that you make that suggestion because I've actually done that a number of times right in front of him, but he hasn't caught on. I finally just came out and said it to him yesterday. He may have nodded in response but I wasn't looking to see it so hopefully he will take it into consideration ^.^

[mrsmiles]

If a man sees you doing something he should be doing, he is probably inclined to accept that you will pick up his slack in the name of laziness and be content with you continuing to pick up his slack, and transition it to other places.

Not always, but it's a result that happens.

And talking that "doggy is thirsty" stuff will just make him think either you're an idiot or you think he's an idiot, which will just make him angry.

Ultimately, it all depends on the kind of guy he is and stuff, but if he's the type that needs to be told what to do, he's already broken and needs to be repaired, pronto.

[mrsmiles]

Communication is tough, sometimes for a while it might even be one of those ::breathes in heavily, then steps out onto the stage:: type of deals in a relationship.

Still needs to be done though, and he will either "get it" or "not" to which the results thereof, will give you more decisions to make.

I always love when you post :) good luck with the boy, hope he gets a newspaper flung into the back of his head and opens his eyes :P