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[_dangerzone911]

I've never really understood people who stay in abusive relationships, whether they be verbally abusive or physically abusive or both. I could never fathom why someone would want to stay with someone that treats them so horribly. I always imagined that if I was in an abusive relationship then I would be able to seperate myself from that person. I

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[morethnamemory]

I'm sorry about your relationship with your mom. That must be really difficult for you. I don't understand the phenomenon that keeps people that on the wrong end of an abusive relationship hanging on either. Maybe I will someday though (my minor is psychology). If I had to guess, I would say that it has its roots in a form of insecurity that most people have: most people do not believe in their hearts that they alone are in control of their own happiness and self-worth. There is usually some outside influence, but there doesn't have to be. I had to figure that out myself, the hard way.

P.S. I love Animal Cops.

[_dangerzone911]

heh sorry I'm so late in reply, but yeah that's probably true on what you said.
ahh Animal Cops is awesome.
I love Animal Cops: Houston though.
Dunno why.
take care.

[renrut_bo]

hey, i understand what you mean completely. I am sure many of us have family problems here, but those lucky enough to eventualy escape the abuse should have some advice to help us out...

[_dangerzone911]

ahh yes that'd be nice if someone had some advice for us.
take care.

[kissed_n_broken]

Just wanted to say HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

[_dangerzone911]

thank you darlin :)
take care.

[electricpanties]

i added u.. u seemed interesting.. cool.. add me back?

[_dangerzone911]

sweet.
I added you back.
Take care.

You need to look this up b/c my terms are pretty foggy on this, but..

[beaded_avulsion]

you are in an abusive relationship. I learned about it in a psych class. Your mom is classified as a neglectful parent whose responses to the child are mixed - sometimes the child recieves attention, sometiems not. This causes the child to seek out the parent's attention to any means necesary, but since they mistrust the parent, all the will do is fight are argue when they are together.

Re: You need to look this up b/c my terms are pretty foggy on this, but..

[_dangerzone911]

ayuh, you pretty much hit the nail on the head.
Thank you for the comment.
Take care darlin.