Comments | _andreafs_: my family is crazy.

_andreafs_

my family is crazy.

Feb 03, 2006 13:02

i seriously think my family needs counseling. i hate the fact that no one takes responsibility for anything. is it THAT hard to take 10 minutes out of your busy lives to drop off my(our) lola/YOUR mother to her dialysis appointment? or to check up on my(our) lolo/YOUR father to make sure he isnt passed out on the floor because his blood sugar ( Read more... )

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daps1 February 3 2006, 14:51:50 UTC

at least we're not crazy...right? =\

sorry to hear about your frustrations. parents expect the convenience of their kids and nephews/nieces to do 'dirty work' like taking care of the grandparents. they were probably expecting it right after they had kids. maybe it's generational. maybe it's the usual miscommunications between filipino parents and their kids. and most of the time people don't know what they got til it's gone.

if my kids start complaining to your kids about this in the future, we'll just hand them this printed-out entry =)

hope everything else is cool. relieve your stress and come out tonight and tomorrow. and bring your oldest middle sister with you =p

ian

at least we're not crazy...right? =\........ _andreafs_ February 3 2006, 15:21:23 UTC

hahaha....i'm rethinking that.....

yeah. i guess i'm too tired to even start with the other side of the family...

i'll be bringing Ally to Tabella tonight...then tomorrow we are headed to Nectar lounge. where are you going to be tonight!?!

Re: at least we're not crazy...right? =\........ daps1 February 3 2006, 15:28:17 UTC

other side of the family? im just talking about us, you and me hahaha!

i'll be at vito's tonight. ask vu.

here: http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y283/daps1/sinigang10-daps.gif

funny... voooahhh February 3 2006, 16:20:37 UTC

my moms side jus thad beef regarding the caretaking of my grandma and how my mom does everything. it was like breaking up a cambodian fight at vitos. instant classic. love ya and smile-take care!

Re: funny... daps1 February 3 2006, 16:22:49 UTC

"it was like breaking up a cambodian fight at vitos."

started by those damn cambodian o'dea heads. damn them

mizdaya February 3 2006, 16:45:03 UTC

**sigh**
i know how you feel girl. it was the same with my lolo when he was sick and then he was in the hospital and passed on.
anyway...
point is...
i feel you.
got your back homie.

=) _andreafs_ February 3 2006, 17:00:24 UTC

thanks! it means a lot and its a little lifted off my shoulders to know that there are others out there that know what its like to deal with this type of family drama.UGH!

AMEN! mystinkypete February 4 2006, 11:49:30 UTC

i don't understand our family sometimes... okay, a LOT of the time. and i don't see how taking care of Lola/Lolo has become such a CHORE for some of our family members. i know EXACTLY where you are coming from, andrea, it's frustrating and i'm totally here if you want to actually talk & get shit off your chest.

Re: AMEN! _andreafs_ February 6 2006, 08:29:48 UTC

we should get together and have coffee or something!