Comments | ___87: The Thickness

___87

The Thickness

Dec 01, 2006 01:33

yes, I stole this from you Ms. Keena. Sorry girl, it was the bomb!

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keena

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bdotwoods December 1 2006, 01:42:27 UTC

I'd hug you. :)

___87 December 4 2006, 08:23:08 UTC

thanks. Sometimes I need a hug!

thecurves December 1 2006, 01:51:53 UTC

i love this post, and i love jill scott. on one of her old cd's her intro talked about her size & her hair. it was beautiful, but now i don't know which cd it was =|

_keena December 1 2006, 16:29:46 UTC

it mustve been her beautifully human one

jill scott is a freak!

___87 December 4 2006, 08:23:59 UTC

yeah i was going to say the same CD

_keena December 1 2006, 16:33:49 UTC

She’s been degraded, exploited, NOT celebrated,
Saturated with self hatred

thats me and jay's favorite part. jill scott is our girl

that song relates to me in some sense because i was gunna head down that road. feeling that i have to show off my body to receive "love" in return. its interesting on how women of all sizes has experience this, but i believe it hits home for big women because many feel that a guy dont want them, unless she's having sex with them, hence the stereotype that all big women are horny and want sex. NO, we want LOVE but many has tried to find love in the wrong places

i just wanna hug jill sometimes.. well.. all of the time! lol..

___87 December 4 2006, 08:31:59 UTC

well I'm glad you didn't head down that road. when you chose to decline you saved yourself from another world of trouble. Even though I'm not big, I still felt it reflected me. Immediately I thought about how I was always put on the back burner for the more lighter skinned girl. Most of the time I always got the "not so attractive" guy because most guys always flocked to my lighter friends or the guys just didn't seem interested. Some people denies that and say it's not true but I say it is, or maybe that was just the "in" thing at the time. whatever the case may be, a lot of chocolate drops feel me when I say this because one time or another, they've been rejected because of their complextion. I'm sure the light folks has had their share to. But do you get where I'm coming from? lol I'm stuggling on explaining myself.

_keena December 4 2006, 21:32:41 UTC

honey, i'm darkskinned too! it took me 16 years to realize that i wasnt as dark for what i was teased for. now i just LOVE my skin color

but i hear ya twin! dont tripp!