Eva, darling... it's not real love if you bail when things get uncomfortable or scary :) So I'm in for the duration. My first husband died from a brain tumor at 28 (I was 23). We were married for 5 years and I have two terrific sons with him. Of course I would do it all over again if given the choice-- we're all mortal and nobody comes with a guarantee of health or safety.
The quality of a person's soul is what it's all about. What do you think about, learn, and accomplish while under that person's influence? You inspire us all to be better people-- more loving, more accepting, more giving. That is still true whether you are with us twenty more minutes or twenty more years.
Once again, thank you for being the amazing person you are, and for allowing us to accompany you on this adventure!
I think you hit it right on the head - and you would be surprised how people disappear from one's life when it doesn't even become as dire as a friend having CF.
I lost my best friend when I was twenty. At the funeral a very close friend [from 1st grade on] looked at me and turned away. I didn't hear from here for quite a few months - her excuse? She couldn't give me what I was "searching for" at the funeral she said. She said she saw it in my eyes. Personally I think I was in shock from my friend's death - but I learned an important lesson that day - shallow people leave for shallow reasons - those left are the ones that were meant to be there all along.
I applaud those that stay with you. You know who your real friends are. Nicely written.
hey.Eva very nice pics of you, you are very very very very very nice girl, can I be your friend? Sorry, if you would like to read my LJ....coz I'm writting in Russian,but live in Belgium..so if you want to have a me like a friend, I will be happy-))
I just found your journal, and I wish we wouldve found it sooner. My boyfriend has two children with CF, a year ago he lost his 17 year old daughter.Good luck to you and we will keep you in our prayers...
Eva I was so pleased to meet you the other evening when the passionate eye was aired. You have managed to reach through my television and touch me in a way I can't explain. I find myself thinking of you everyday since and my prayers are with you and your family. God Bless.
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The quality of a person's soul is what it's all about. What do you think about, learn, and accomplish while under that person's influence? You inspire us all to be better people-- more loving, more accepting, more giving. That is still true whether you are with us twenty more minutes or twenty more years.
Once again, thank you for being the amazing person you are, and for allowing us to accompany you on this adventure!
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I lost my best friend when I was twenty. At the funeral a very close friend [from 1st grade on] looked at me and turned away. I didn't hear from here for quite a few months - her excuse? She couldn't give me what I was "searching for" at the funeral she said. She said she saw it in my eyes. Personally I think I was in shock from my friend's death - but I learned an important lesson that day - shallow people leave for shallow reasons - those left are the ones that were meant to be there all along.
I applaud those that stay with you. You know who your real friends are. Nicely written.
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very nice pics of you, you are very very very very very nice girl, can I be your friend?
Sorry, if you would like to read my LJ....coz I'm writting in Russian,but live in Belgium..so if you want to have a me like a friend, I will be happy-))
may be you know some words in Russian-))))?
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