awkward exchange

Apr 21, 2009 07:51

I think one of the team leads at work, who is gay and happens to be a bear, was flirting with me. Trouble is, I'm kind of dense at these things ( Read more... )

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nightfallcub April 21 2009, 12:03:49 UTC
it depends on the tone. he could have been just being friendly and concerned. but if he said it with a little innuendo in his voice....he might have been flirting...

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thatfatboy April 21 2009, 14:16:39 UTC
I would have simply taken it as a friendly comment, but I would question if he decided to pause before personally and change his tone on that one word. Maybe he is reaching out all friendly like.

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motleyprose April 21 2009, 14:47:38 UTC
I think you're reading too much into things. Just my two cents.

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polomex April 21 2009, 15:08:35 UTC
Yeah, as others have said, it's difficult to gauge from just the dialogue alone. Body language and tone are often more telling than the actual words themselves.

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yukon72 April 21 2009, 15:47:50 UTC
"personally or professionally" is what catches me.

If it were just "professionally", I would have left it at "If there's anything I can do for you just let me know".

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