Ok, I think this is the last of the purge.

[zuraliya_dances]

I'm slightly less angry today. Still a little confused, but I guess I get to stay that way. I've been doing a lot of thinking over the past few days about what happened and why, since it's in my nature to dissect things within an inch of insanity. Jason was telling me about how he treated people when he was a teenager. His insecurity led him to

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[bobbysan]

I have a feeling I allowed Kathleen to use me like she used so many people in the past. She said so many terrible things about you that we just figured no one would make that us so you had to be in the wrong.
I would like to apologize. I think I understand how she is now. She did the same thing to some other people she knew when I met her and I think she will start doing the same thing to me too. She took everything I could give her as a friend but wanted more. When another woman came into the picture, she started trying to sabotage our relationship to the point that if the woman hadn't known me for 17 years, I am sure she would have walked. I took her with me to another state because she claimed she was dying at her job (literally being poisoned) and I felt bad for her. So my girlfriend and I helped her find a place where we live. hen she started in with the negativity and lies or taking truths and spinning them to make them much worse then they were.
I am lucky it didn't work.
Anyway...I've sent an apology to Chumas already because I think she did the same to him and who knows who else she did it to. I'm starting to wonder about so much she's told me in the past.
Anyway...I really am sorry about all that.

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[zuraliya_dances]

Bobby, I always thought you were a cool person and was upset when you "defriended" me. I completely understand what happened to you, because it happened to me as well. I can't even begin to imagine what was said about me, having heard the stories about other people. If a person is willing to lie about their own lives, they should be more than willing to lie about the lives of others. For the record, Kathleen never had dogs before she met you. That always made me laugh. She went from "we never had pets" to "we raised malamutes". I wonder about her parents and her family life. I wonder about everything.
It's unfortunate. She's funny and smart and should have been a better person. I hope she can find some peace in her life. She'd ridicule me for saying this, but I do hope she can be happy one day.

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[bobbysan]

I appreciate the kindness and again, I have to say I am sorry. I am usually better about people but I think if you lie to yourself enough, you start to believe it and it's easier to lie to others.
I have kept this page bookmarked for a long time, because I have been wondering about things since before I moved to NC.
When I showed it to my girlfriend, she saw the resemblance right away.

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[bobbysan]

I friended you again for two reasons...
One, because I know I was wrong and to try again.
Second, I added you back and added you to a filter I will be using to tell people who have been asking about Kathleen since she dropped LJ.

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[zuraliya_dances]

Hey, that's a mighty cute girlfriend you have there - and she was willing to pose with a grill! That's a keeper! =)

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[bobbysan]

She is my heart. Been looking for her for the last 17 years since we worked at Cedar Point together one summer.