May 16, 2003 23:04
Apparantly, my ex's ex has been keeping tabs on me and making stupid assumtions. She does this through the help of her ex. Too twisted. It seems I missed the page where if somone shows concern for a friend, who happens to be an ex, it means that they're still "madly in love". Do I still care for my ex? Sure, we had kids, and he's my best friend. Do I think he and I should be together in that "happily ever after"? Nope. Even if the threat of some psycho coming around every three to five years to make my life hell weren't a factor, there's many other reasons he and I should stick to just friends. I'll always have moments of regret when I'll wish things were different and that it all wound up white picket fences. Then I get my reality check, and I realize if I had picket fences, I'd probably rather they be black, or at least something more interesting than white. ;)
I thought psychos had enough drama in their lives, and didn't need to go around butting into other people's to get their kicks. Of course, all of this could be another convenient twisting of the truth to support one of her lamebraned excuses. Not sure how, but stranger things happen. Bottom line, people who aren't in my life shouldn't pass judgement on it, nor should they pretend to know the first thing about it. Maybe it's time to try to finish something completely, even if it is running away and removing yourself from someone's life. (And before anyone gets their panties in a bunch, I'm referring to her removing herself from my life as my friend. If she wants to rekindle things with our collective ex, that's between them.)