Old and Ragged things

[yuri_huyga]

I stood there on the edge of the ocean bare feet just being licked by the coming tide. Might as well of been the edge of the world. It called to me as siren to a sailor. It whispered how it would quench the fire in my heart. A step closer, I half feared that the water would turn to steam before me. All of my being mortified trying to draw backward

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[haruchai]

My "friend" called me hyporitical for saying that he should get out there and be a little more forward if he truly wanted a g/f. He said that I always bug him about putting personal stuff in his journal and he finally did and I teased him. I didn't tease about the poem I teased about the entry with the one line "I need a girlfriend." I fail to see how that's so hypocritical. I've always believed that a person shouldn't whine if they haven't tried. I suppose there are some things you shouldn't even say to "friends".

~Actually what I said was that since YOU always were whining about how there was never anything personal in it you really have no room to complain when I DO put something in it. Plus there's the fact that you edited your ENTIRE JOURNAL before actually telling me where it's at..

and it's called low self-image mixed with rejection issues. Not to mention read what you said about peers around here. So deal.

It's not like he doesn't keep telling me I should go back to school, or hum asking me if I'm going to let MY Daughter continue to were those cute little short skirts when she's older, when I don't recall ever asking his opinion.

~I only said that because you keep complaining about not having a job and how bored you are and how it's going to be so long until the next round of interviews. And yes, I did ask if you were going to let her continue wearing them that short when she gets older...once. She's got long legs! Plus you are the one who comments on how she's getting older etc. I'm not going to apologize for making an inoccuous statement, but if you find that type of thing offensive you need to SAY SO. Otherwise how thde hell am I s'pose to know? And it's not like you haven't made your own share of unasked for opinions/comments.

YEAH RIGHT

[yuri_huyga]

I was only pointing out that you feel free to say things like that but when I say them you get defensive. You can say what you like. Yet I must watch what I say. You say you have low self image issues but when have I ever said anything bad about the way you look?! Like I ever would. The only thing I edited by the way, was my sexual history which really you don't have any buisness knowing and I would be disturbed if you did want to know it. How the hell did I "whine" about your poem. You take everything out of context and twist it into something that it isn't all I said about your poem was it reminded me of a line in a song. A song that I happen to like. GRRRR I'm not attaking there's no reason for all your verbal posture.

it's because my irl posture is so passive

[haruchai]

If you notice, I don't say things about WHAT you say...it's what Manner in which they are said. I wouldn't care if you said something like "You need to watch porn so you're mind won't be so dirty" (though I know this is something you would NEVER say). However, when you complain that there's never anything personal on my journal and then flame me for what I DO put on there? yeah, I'm gonna get defensive. And yes you have said bad things about the way I look, my hair's too long, I'm not dressing spiffy enough, my interview pants have white spots on them...so yeah, you have.
You never whined about my poem, never said you did. And you're right, I have no need to know about your sexual history. And I never said anything about the song either though you constantly make it a habit to make fun of MY listening preferences. So there, that's what I was going to say.

Oh yes, and to correct myself, the reason I said you were being hypocritical wasn't for the above stated reason but because you had said at coffee corner when we got lunch that people should sign up for a journal jsut to be able to post replies (even if they never used the journal) yet you have a journal and still always post anonymously instead of following your own statement and signing up for a journal and posting replies from that account. Hell, you could even call it roger bacon or the pink panty spell of doom.

Re: it's because my irl posture is so passive

[yuri_huyga]

I think it would be rather pointless for me to get a journal were you are the only one I would ever post anyonmous too. You know the reasons, it's not hypocritical at all. If I am being contradictory I'll simply not read your journal or remark on it. Problem solved. I don't like the idea of having two journals and screening them it's secrative and dishonest. As for the remarks about your pants and holy shirt I believe I said that when you told me you wore them to an interview. Again you taking things out of context. Also the trench coat covered with glitter when you ment those two girls for the first time. Your hair yes I suppose I do tease about that but it's not like im pointing a fingure saying O god it's hideous. I don't see if how I never whined about your poem that I ever said anything mocking about the personal things you put in there because really that's the only thing I've seen. It's not like you haven't made a few sideways remarks about things I've said in here, at game even. Granted no one's going to know what the hell you are talking about but still it's a breach of trust. Something small and petty but I feel that calling you calling me hypocritcal is also quite small and petty. If you truly feel that I am hypocritical why do speak to me at all? Why should we hang out? To call someone hypocritical is a heavy insult you should think more about your words when start flinging them at people. Especially for such a lame reason.