there are times when i just dont understand ppl. i once loved a boy, a sweet, caring, loving, humble boy, but ended the relationship badly. everything was my fault
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If you think you have any fault in the matter, don't blame it on yourself. Who people are and become is a reaction to a sum of experiences. We all influenced eachother and over the years have become totally different people. There was choice involved, and all of us apparently made very different ones. As one of the people hated most by this particular individual, I just say let him live his life how he chooses. I don't foresee his anger or hatred towards me causing me to change my life for the better or worse, so I choose not to let if effect me. If you can't find peace with him, find peace without him. ♥ ya Jonathon
ummm...did I ever mention emily? at all? Nope. So please stop getting upset with me. I never said I "felt sorry" for you. If you're happy with yourself, then that's great. But, seriously, calm down.
The past is the past and I cannot change that. I can only learn from my mistakes and hope to act better the next time the opportunity presents itself. Thank you for giving me said opportunity, Steve. And I am glad to hear that you are perfectly calm. I must have mistook your choice of words and use of the caps lock key to mean that you were something other than calm, perhaps defensive or even upset, so once again, thank you for clearing that up. Enjoy your calm state.
Just to clarify, I purposely avoided blaming Emily. If truth be told, I don't think Emily is at fault in the least. That would be too simple. And Emily isn't some corrupt(-ing?) bitch. She's highly opinionated and isn't afraid to speak her mind. The difference, I believe, is that when we speak our minds we are foolish tools. When you speak your mind, we are all supposed to accept it as truth. It's all about perception. When it comes down to it- A bunch of us don't like eachother, but the fact of the matter is that we won't ever have to deal with eachother again. Case closed. Everybody walk away, because standing in eachother's faces arguing does none of us good. Hopefully this will bring closure... Good luck to everyone.
I have to say, I think that Emily is highly influential on everyone she is around. That's just how she is. It's not bad, it's not wrong. It just happens.
Who people are and become is a reaction to a sum of experiences.
We all influenced eachother and over the years have become totally different people. There was choice involved, and all of us apparently made very different ones.
As one of the people hated most by this particular individual, I just say let him live his life how he chooses.
I don't foresee his anger or hatred towards me causing me to change my life for the better or worse, so I choose not to let if effect me.
If you can't find peace with him, find peace without him.
♥ ya
Jonathon
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So please stop getting upset with me. I never said I "felt sorry" for you. If you're happy with yourself, then that's great. But, seriously, calm down.
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If truth be told, I don't think Emily is at fault in the least.
That would be too simple.
And Emily isn't some corrupt(-ing?) bitch. She's highly opinionated and isn't afraid to speak her mind.
The difference, I believe, is that when we speak our minds we are foolish tools. When you speak your mind, we are all supposed to accept it as truth.
It's all about perception.
When it comes down to it-
A bunch of us don't like eachother, but the fact of the matter is that we won't ever have to deal with eachother again.
Case closed.
Everybody walk away, because standing in eachother's faces arguing does none of us good.
Hopefully this will bring closure...
Good luck to everyone.
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It's not bad, it's not wrong. It just happens.
And who are we to say anything.
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